Where has the sparks gone?
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Anonymous
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Dh and I have been married for 23 yeqrs .. tomorrow is our Anniversary.
We were so in love … mersmerized by each other coildnt het enough. Then slowly it all vanished. We have a troubled marriage. Yes ainknow people chnage priorities change with kids, elderly, work. I used to spend days and weeks to find the perfect Anniv card and gift. Here I am sitting with nothing. We barely talk unless its necessary for some task. He always snaps these days so I always try to avoid conversations. But I do miss those days and think of them often. Sorry … but just venting out. Wondering if I should pick up anything at all. |
Anonymous
| And sorry about the typos. |
Anonymous
| This happened to us, too. Likely because he is a narcissist with unresolved childhood issues and because we had different libido levels. |
Anonymous
Are you still married now? What do you do when birthdays and anniversaries come up? |
Anonymous
| Get a nice gift. I would suggest marriage counseling. |
Anonymous
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This is like a nice garden that has been neglected and taken over by weeds.
So go out and start gardening. |
Anonymous
| Get creative |
Anonymous
| yes, and i want a divorce, even with my cancer and other medical issues, lets see on my next PET how long i have -want to make sure i divorce before im dead |
Anonymous
| They ran away with "have" |
Anonymous
| Op, how old are you guys? |
Anonymous
| 57 |
Anonymous
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Op here
I got some cake that he likes. He got a sacher slice cake. Don’t think anything else is happening. …would be fake. |
Anonymous
| What a horrible way to live. Now what? |
Anonymous
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Nothing really…
here for the kids. |
Anonymous
😬 |