HS Graduation Party

[Anonymous]

How are you planning to do it, if you are doing one?
Who would be invited and where would you hold it?
How much are you planning to spend?

[Anonymous]

BYDT three times and first at many. We are backyard barbecue type of people. Guests are family and friends. Kid gets their own guest list. Cost depends on whether you include alcohol and number of guests.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:BYDT three times and first at many. We are backyard barbecue type of people. Guests are family and friends. Kid gets their own guest list. Cost depends on whether you include alcohol and number of guests.

We would have about 70 people but dont want to spend $1000 for grad party.
Our home is too small to hold it in.

[Anonymous]

Why have a party? Aren't all the graduates doing something with their own families? Do explain dmv grad party expectations and etiquette

[Anonymous]

The Asians seem to have big elaborate grad parties.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:BYDT three times and first at many. We are backyard barbecue type of people. Guests are family and friends. Kid gets their own guest list. Cost depends on whether you include alcohol and number of guests.

This. About 15 family members (nuclear plus grandparents, aunts, uncles and a few cousins), and then drop in for friends and their families. The closest friends plan the parties around each other, and everyone else it's drop in. Your own kid will spend the entire week going from party to party.

[Anonymous]

I have had 2 kids that have graduated and have attended many grad parties. All have been home/back yard parties.

[Anonymous]

I’m in the Midwest and we have them in our garages or rent a “hall” or church basement.

[Anonymous]

We gave DC the choice of a party with a handful of friends, their parents and some family friends (no extended family nearby) or $500 which is roughly what we would spend on the backyard bbq type party. They opted for the cash.

[Anonymous]

I lost my virginity in an upstairs bedroom at a graduation party.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I lost my virginity in an upstairs bedroom at a graduation party.

Same. It was intentional though, I didn't want to go to college a virgin.

He was a very hot friend of my friend's older brother, he played minor football (? I don't know what it's called) in Australia. No major regrets. Definite points for never having to see or interact with him again, and the tales he could tell about me to anyone I knew were blessedly very limited in the days prior to the invention of the internet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We gave DC the choice of a party with a handful of friends, their parents and some family friends (no extended family nearby) or $500 which is roughly what we would spend on the backyard bbq type party. They opted for the cash.

I wish I had a big backyard. We are having about 80 people and will probably have to spend about $1800

[Anonymous]

For our ‘23 son we had about 40 people and spent around $1300. It was in our backyard. We had his favorite food vendor from our local farmers market cater (they set up in our yard and people went up and ordered and it was cooked on demand) which is why it was so expensive

Our ‘26 son doesn’t want a party.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:BYDT three times and first at many. We are backyard barbecue type of people. Guests are family and friends. Kid gets their own guest list. Cost depends on whether you include alcohol and number of guests.

We would have about 70 people but dont want to spend $1000 for grad party.
Our home is too small to hold it in.

Reserve a spot in a public park. Not sure where you are, but if in Arlington there is a nice covered space with picnic tables at Lubber Run down by the creek. At that price point, you will need to do the food yourself; there are grills at the Lubber Run place. There is a Gazebo you can reserve at the park next to the library in McLean. Places like that.

[Anonymous]

Joint party?