How passionate / intense is your love life?

[Anonymous]

From 1 to 10. 1 being nothing at all / extremely vanilla. 10 being very intense and passionate. And how old are you?

[Anonymous]

9

We're 36 and 40

[Anonymous]

Maybe a 4-5? We’re 30 and 39.

Wish it were more passionate but my partner has very rigid ideas on what is and isn’t acceptable sexually. It sometimes gets passionate in a more romantic sense, like from a movie. But not the more dirty stuff I like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Maybe a 4-5? We’re 30 and 39.

Wish it were more passionate but my partner has very rigid ideas on what is and isn’t acceptable sexually. It sometimes gets passionate in a more romantic sense, like from a movie. But not the more dirty stuff I like.

Are you the man or woman?

[Anonymous]

Hard to rate.

My marriage had a lot of unresolved tension that felt like passion, but there was not actual sex or connection.

The day to day with my boyfriend is pretty boring, but the sex is intensely satisfying. But it’s not like the movies at all.

[Anonymous]

We’re both very attracted to each other and do sexualish things daily but have sex about once a week. As far as the daily things go, we typically start our day with me tucking her in and taking the dog out. Then I make her favorite coffee and bring it to her to wak her up. We’ll chat for a bit, read the news and drink our coffee. Then she’ll straddle me and show off her body, stretch, rub all over each other and talk. Then she’ll switch and give me a reverse cowgirl style straddle hug. She’s got a gorgeous body and she knows I love it. We have sex about once per week. We do the same things but its pretty good for both of us.

So, I wouldn’t know where to put that on a scale. There’s passion and we love each other and enjoy sex with each other but I wouldn’t know where to put that on a passion scale.

[Anonymous]

3, late 50s and early 60s, married for 28 years. We love each other, and have a decent sex life, approx 3 times in 2 weeks, but passionate? I wouldn't say so - passion is for dating and newlyweds, not for long-term life

[Anonymous]

With spouse, probably a 4. With others 8!

[Anonymous]

OP I find it funny you lump “nothing at all and extreme vanilla” together.

To me these are very different. Vanilla may not be hot but it beats nothing at all any day.

[Anonymous]

We’re 53, been together since 2020, about an 8 on the intensity/passionate scale.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We’re both very attracted to each other and do sexualish things daily but have sex about once a week. As far as the daily things go, we typically start our day with me tucking her in and taking the dog out. Then I make her favorite coffee and bring it to her to wak her up. We’ll chat for a bit, read the news and drink our coffee. Then she’ll straddle me and show off her body, stretch, rub all over each other and talk. Then she’ll switch and give me a reverse cowgirl style straddle hug. She’s got a gorgeous body and she knows I love it. We have sex about once per week. We do the same things but its pretty good for both of us.

So, I wouldn’t know where to put that on a scale. There’s passion and we love each other and enjoy sex with each other but I wouldn’t know where to put that on a passion scale.

That sounds heavenly!

[Anonymous]

I’m 43, 9. I have an on again boyfriend who I love and we have a lot of passion and great bedroom activity. It’s very raw and rough and we can’t keep our hands off each other. He struggles emotionally though which causes the on again off again.

During one of off times I picked up another partner who I keep as a secret FWB. He’s 36 and we’re a 10. We have a great friendship and love talking to each other. His personality is very different from my boyfriend’s. He’s very sensitive and sweet. We make love and it’s incredibly intense. I cry my eyes out after.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m 43, 9. I have an on again boyfriend who I love and we have a lot of passion and great bedroom activity. It’s very raw and rough and we can’t keep our hands off each other. He struggles emotionally though which causes the on again off again.

During one of off times I picked up another partner who I keep as a secret FWB. He’s 36 and we’re a 10. We have a great friendship and love talking to each other. His personality is very different from my boyfriend’s. He’s very sensitive and sweet. We make love and it’s incredibly intense. I cry my eyes out after.

You’re cheating on your boyfriend, just sayin.

[Anonymous]

We are a 2. Never been more than a 4. I’m frankly very depressed about it. We are 47 and 44.

[Anonymous]

As intense as unseasoned grits with a side of toast.