One Week Leave For Sibling Death

Anonymous
I had an email this morning from a support member saying they will be out until December 8th.

This is abnormal, right?
Anonymous
Why do you care? MYOB.
Anonymous
Omg. No. Ugh. What a gross thing to worry about. They might need to travel and spend time with their family. Don’t be a horrible person OP. Let the employee have time off.
Anonymous
Yes, it should be longer.
Anonymous
Why isn't that normal?
Anonymous
I'd say yes, it's excessive.
Anonymous
You are upset over someone taking off a week after the death of their sibling?

If so, you are the abnormal one.
Anonymous
What?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You are upset over someone taking off a week after the death of their sibling?

If so, you are the abnormal one.


Describes 95% of DCUM.
Anonymous
Normal. Our company has a 3 days standard bereavement leave but at managers discretion it can be more. I 8 years of managing I've had about 3 people asking for more than that and granted it.
Anonymous
Did sibling live far away?
My family is in England. I get 3 days of BL for a sibling or parent. If going to England to attend a funeral and take care of affairs though I’m sure I’d be gone longer than a week.
Anonymous
Um, what? Do you not have siblings?

I'm not close to my sibling and I 100% understand the need for leave and to grieve. Besides the funeral and family stuff, some religions and traditions require a mandatory grief period.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I had an email this morning from a support member saying they will be out until December 8th.

This is abnormal, right?


Really not sure which way you're suggesting would be more normal...

Sounds pretty normal if they're local. Sounds pretty short if they're not local.
Anonymous
Maybe they are even taking LWOP or personal time if official leave isn't a week. Get over it.
Anonymous
A week off for any reason is fine.
You don't know if they are traveling or the executor or the sole remaining caretaker of elderly relatives or what - but even if it were none of those things, it would be fine. The only reason the death is relevant is that it excuses the lack of earlier notice.
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