Do you still communicate with your ex spouse on issues not related to your kids?
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Anonymous
| Do you still communicate with your ex spouse on issues not related to your kids? Like do you randomly text them or call them just to chat? |
Anonymous
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No. We are forever connected because of our kids so we talk about things related to them.
No kids, I wouldn’t. I would talk to her if our paths crossed or reach out if someone close was ill or passed away. They are exes for a reason. Keeping them as a friend would be odd. |
Anonymous
| Hell to the no. They’re an ex for good reasons. |
Anonymous
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Nope. I can't wait until our kids graduate college so that the next time I'll talk to her will be at their weddings (if they get married of course). Everytime I see her text or hear her voice my day is instantly ruined. She is the biggest narcissist and cheater I have ever come across. I am praying none of our kids inherit those nasty traits. And oh she is pathological lier as well.
I salute women who give chances after chances to men who are liers and narcissists. I don't know how you guys do it. I'm staying for the kids? Nope they are better off. And I have primary custody. I fought for it and when she was exposed it was relatively easy. |
Anonymous
Even if someone close to her died I wouldn't reach out. Divorce exposes peoples true nature. Some people turn into monsters and she turned into a bad one. |
Anonymous
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Yes. We were friends before we got married and were friends after the divorce. We have 2 kids.
We still bounce ideas off of each other, complain about work, we might even go out to dinner on our own if we have a lot to discuss about the kids. |
Anonymous
| We barely communicate about issues that ARE related to the kids. There is no way I would communicate with this person about anything that is not absolutely necessary/legally mandated by my settlement agreement. |
Anonymous
Tell us more. |
Anonymous
| No, but if he’s dropping off or picking up the kids we may chat about non-kid things. |
Anonymous
What do you want to know? |
Anonymous
Why haven't you f**d him yet? Shhhh we won't tell if you did |
Anonymous
The last time he ate you out? |
Anonymous
10 yrs ago when we were still married. We communicate, we're friends, we chat....we don't have sex in any form. |
Anonymous
| No. Kid related stuff only. Can't wait until they are in college and this communication is over. |
Anonymous
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Yes, we are still friends.
We share a child together. Even though we divorced 11 years back, we remain supportive of each other. We've both remarried and are happy in our new marriages. I've always looked up to the relationship between Demi Moore and Bruce Willis post-divorce. |