| Helpful in a meaningful way or likely not? |
Take alum out of the equation. Get recommendation from someone who can speak well of your child, and has evidence to back it up. |
| I think it can help show fit. IMO They discount a lot of the alumni interviewers, but they'll take a good look at a one-off rec from an alumn that doesn't normally send them things (provided that they have real experience with the applicant of course). |
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Honestly depends on the school. At most selective schools I know it can actually hurt. If the person is a professor or otherwise has major clout that is different.
What school? |
That's not categorically true. The truth is it depends on the letter writer, what they say, and the candidate. |
A plain ole "letter of rec from an alum" that is not a board member, big donor, professor, or someone who knows the applicant in a supervisory or other similar manner, will look like you're trying to make up for a weakness somewhere else in the application. What exactly do you think it adds (this kid will be a great alum one day, who matches our values, is not helpful, nor good enough). Don't let it be a red flag at any T20. |
NAH I think you're kid didn't submit one and you're nervous. I think from an alum that has kept up with the school and really knows the applicant as a person, it can help a lot. |
*your* kid, sorry I guess the truth is, we don't know but can only hope for the best |
Weirdo. I don't have a kid applying this cycle. Kid is a junior. Have 2 in college (yes both T20). Did it for neither - though we debated it and researched it heavily. The one school we've heard that it "may" help is Wake Forest. That's why I said school matters. You do you. |
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OP here:
Top 20 school (not slac) Letter of recommendation is for “other” (not counselor or teacher) bc of kid’s leadership and extensive impact. Letter is excellent (superlatives and lots of examples). |
Let me Clarify: So as an example, kid volunteers teaching a finance class at a school for low income kids for many years and letter writer knows abt that bc letter writer is a director of the ec program at the school. |
| I don’t think this moves the needle much from what I have heard. Counselor said don’t throw any rec letters unless on the board or building-level type donor - and they should know your kid very well. |
I agree with the PP, and I have 2 degrees from HYPS universities and interview for them, so I have some basis to know. You on the other hand are rude and ignorant and should learn the difference between "your" and "you're." |
| No not helpful at all |
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It doesn't help at all and it feels desperate and manipulative.
I saw a few people try this last cycle and it did nothing. You run the risk of annoying the admissions staffers. |