H puts me down in front of the kids

[Anonymous]

He criticizes everything: my career (lawyer), my looks/style (god forbid teenage DD wears one of my outfits - he thinks it’s awful she should look like me), before the holidays I had half a glass of wine with dinner 3 times a week or so and called me an alcoholic in front of the kids. Things like this, all the time. My job is no worse than his, as he’s unemployed, and I certainly look a lot better than him. I have been described as stylish many times.

[Anonymous]

Divorce if you are unhappy. You are a lawyer. You have plenty of money to leave. But, with your writing you sound fake vs. a lawyer.

[Anonymous]

Ok... and? I never understand these posts. You know it's not ok so what exactly are you looking for? People just to say "yeah OP! Your husband is a jerk!!".

Either you're going to put up with the behavior or you're not, nothing anyone says here is going to change him or the situation

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Divorce if you are unhappy. You are a lawyer. You have plenty of money to leave. But, with your writing you sound fake vs. a lawyer.

I find these attention seeking posts so odd.

[Anonymous]

If you have sons you're teaching them this is an acceptable way for them to treat their wives. If you have daughters you're teaching them this is an acceptable way for husbands to treat them. So what is keeping you from divorcing?

[Anonymous]

Set yourself free - Divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Set yourself free - Divorce.

Working on it. Hopefully it’s over soon. Just looking back now and it’s been like this longer than I had realized. Frog in boiling water I guess…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you have sons you're teaching them this is an acceptable way for them to treat their wives. If you have daughters you're teaching them this is an acceptable way for husbands to treat them. So what is keeping you from divorcing?

Literally nothing is keeping me.

[Anonymous]

Ok?

So you wanted to come on here and brag about being a stylish lawyer?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Divorce if you are unhappy. You are a lawyer. You have plenty of money to leave. But, with your writing you sound fake vs. a lawyer.

+100

—a lawyer

[Anonymous]

He criticizes your career when he has no job? Do you start laughing at his craziness?

[Anonymous]

You may end up paying him alimony and child support. Ideally he would be working when you split.

[Anonymous]

So a husband demand and gaslights his wife and the wife is a braggart and attention seeker. DCUM at its finest.

To the second rate lawyers - this is a message board, not some contract or motion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So a husband demand and gaslights his wife and the wife is a braggart and attention seeker. DCUM at its finest.

To the second rate lawyers - this is a message board, not some contract or motion.

^ demeans

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Set yourself free - Divorce.

Working on it. Hopefully it’s over soon. Just looking back now and it’s been like this longer than I had realized. Frog in boiling water I guess…

You got this! Best of luck to you.