High divorce rate among lesbians

[Anonymous]

If lesbians have the highest divorce rate, aren't women equally responsible for the issues that happen in a hetero marriage?

On this forum in 99% of divorces I think we can safely conclude who is blamed.

Is it in women's nature that they cant do no wrong in a marriage?

[Anonymous]

Source? Relative to cisgender hetero couples? Gay men marriages? Not exactly bowled over by your analysis, OP.

[Anonymous]

This is one of the weirdest posts I’ve seen here.

[Anonymous]

“They cant do no wrong?”

Maybe stop day drinking, OP. Step away from the keyboard.

[Anonymous]

Are you trying to imply that lesbians have a male hormone that makes them more likely to divorce or something?

[Anonymous]

If it's true that lesbian women have higher divorce rate I honestly can't make any conclusion out of it. are you trying to say that 2 women in a marriage experience higher infidelity or are less likely to tolerate infidelity? Again I don't know

[Anonymous]

I have a friend who is a divorce attorney. The reason why women initiate more divorces is because men are too lazy to initiate the process.

She also does estate planning and same thing - 95% of clients are women, because men are too lazy.

With 2 women, you now have 2 people who are willing to file, rather than 1 who is willing and 1 who can’t be bothered.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who is a divorce attorney. The reason why women initiate more divorces is because men are too lazy to initiate the process.

She also does estate planning and same thing - 95% of clients are women, because men are too lazy.

With 2 women, you now have 2 people who are willing to file, rather than 1 who is willing and 1 who can’t be bothered.

+1

I wouldn't call it laziness though. I think we men don't have the same sense of urgency women do for a lot of things.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who is a divorce attorney. The reason why women initiate more divorces is because men are too lazy to initiate the process.

She also does estate planning and same thing - 95% of clients are women, because men are too lazy.

With 2 women, you now have 2 people who are willing to file, rather than 1 who is willing and 1 who can’t be bothered.

Interesting. My ex husband wanted the divorce but was too lazy/distracted/whatever to actually file the stuff. It was maddening.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who is a divorce attorney. The reason why women initiate more divorces is because men are too lazy to initiate the process.

Or put another way, men are willing to put up with a lot more before they turn to divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If lesbians have the highest divorce rate, aren't women equally responsible for the issues that happen in a hetero marriage?

On this forum in 99% of divorces I think we can safely conclude who is blamed.

Is it in women's nature that they cant do no wrong in a marriage?

Gonna need a stat on that one

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend who is a divorce attorney. The reason why women initiate more divorces is because men are too lazy to initiate the process.

Or put another way, men are willing to put up with a lot more before they turn to divorce.

This is generally true. The only exception is infidelity. If a wife cheats on her husband when he comes out he is likely done with the marriage

[Anonymous]

Hasty generalization.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is one of the weirdest posts I’ve seen here.

Post weirdness aside (and agree it’s a weird one):

- there is a valid sociological issue here; one worthy of study and likely a few research papers.

Compared to heterosexual marriages in the United States, lesbian marriages exhibit an unusually high divorce rate, while homosexual male marriages exhibit the opposite trend.


I don’t have answers. But it is a fascinating phenomenon nonetheless.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is one of the weirdest posts I’ve seen here.

Post weirdness aside (and agree it’s a weird one):

- there is a valid sociological issue here; one worthy of study and likely a few research papers.

Compared to heterosexual marriages in the United States, lesbian marriages exhibit an unusually high divorce rate, while homosexual male marriages exhibit the opposite trend.


I don’t have answers. But it is a fascinating phenomenon nonetheless.

And gay male marriages have the lowest rate of all; even lower than heteros.