PSA to middle aged divorced dads on Hinge who are "open to children"

[Anonymous]

No man who is a good, involved father and a moral, respectable person would say this. Either a) you don't really parent the children you already have, so a couple more doesn't seem like a big deal to you. Or b) you don't actually want more children, but you do want to match with younger women, and you don't care if you waste their fertility window.

I'm an attractive divorced 40 yo mom and before I made "don't want children" a dealbreaker, I got dozens of you gross dudes slobbering over my profile begging me for a chance every day. As soon as I saw that you're 45+, "have kids" and are also "open to kids" you went directly in the trash because you're a useless loser who is not worth my time. You all deserved to be baby trapped into family #2 by desperate late 30s women who lied about being on birth control.

[Anonymous]

Don't you think they could just mean they're open to dating someone who also has children?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't you think they could just mean they're open to dating someone who also has children?

Yeah that's what I would have assumed they meant. But I'm not on online dating so I guess I wouldn't know.

[Anonymous]

You seem lovely.

[Anonymous]

I am confused. You could just ignore them no? I mean you don't have to respond back to them. I am trying to understand what you are trying to say.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No man who is a good, involved father and a moral, respectable person would say this. Either a) you don't really parent the children you already have, so a couple more doesn't seem like a big deal to you. Or b) you don't actually want more children, but you do want to match with younger women, and you don't care if you waste their fertility window.

I'm an attractive divorced 40 yo mom and before I made "don't want children" a dealbreaker, I got dozens of you gross dudes slobbering over my profile begging me for a chance every day. As soon as I saw that you're 45+, "have kids" and are also "open to kids" you went directly in the trash because you're a useless loser who is not worth my time. You all deserved to be baby trapped into family #2 by desperate late 30s women who lied about being on birth control.

Women don't talk about other women this way. And second women don't believe in men who say they have been trapped.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No man who is a good, involved father and a moral, respectable person would say this. Either a) you don't really parent the children you already have, so a couple more doesn't seem like a big deal to you. Or b) you don't actually want more children, but you do want to match with younger women, and you don't care if you waste their fertility window.

I'm an attractive divorced 40 yo mom and before I made "don't want children" a dealbreaker, I got dozens of you gross dudes slobbering over my profile begging me for a chance every day. As soon as I saw that you're 45+, "have kids" and are also "open to kids" you went directly in the trash because you're a useless loser who is not worth my time. You all deserved to be baby trapped into family #2 by desperate late 30s women who lied about being on birth control.

Women don't talk about other women this way. And second women don't believe in men who say they have been trapped.

+1. I wonder if this was written by a man.

[Anonymous]

Guess we know why you are divorced.

[Anonymous]

Congrats! You did it!!

[Anonymous]

Clearly a troll

[Anonymous]

You are very dumb. This means they’re open to dating a woman with kids.

Or do you really think the 48yo women who have the same in their profile expect to get pregnant again?

[Anonymous]

wtf. I would think it means if you have kids it isn’t a dealbreaker.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You seem lovely.

+1

She's doing them a favor and doesn't even know it.

[Anonymous]

I can see why OP is divorced--brutal combo of dumb and mean.

[Anonymous]

Anyone you threw "directly in the trash" is fortunate.