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And getting compliments,
Is it nice or creepy ? Let say 15-20 years older than you and you are older than 25. |
| No, ideally the female is younger and the man older and wealthy |
| If you are 25-35, attractive, married or single and travel a lot on business the 50+ guys can be very annoying and creepy. I never go to a hotel bar or restaurant alone because that is where they hang out. |
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I have a thing for older men.
Love attention from them! |
| I’m 40 and get hit on by older men all the time. I’ve decided it’s because I’m older than their daughters yet younger than their ex-wives. |
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I got so much attention from ages 30-35 from older men. I didn't feel like they were creeps, but they were single for a reason.
Now the younger guys to notice me at 43+. |
I'm 41 and divorced and this weekend I was at a wedding and ran into the widowed father of an old friend of mine. He's about 63 and he looks fantastic and I felt like hitting on him! My friend was also at the wedding so I behaved. |
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Both men and women can age well if they care of themselves, but most don't. And alcohol is a big culprit more than lack of physical activity. So if you hey hit on from an ATTRACTIVE older man that's a compliment.
I am 47 and I am divorced but not dating. I take really good care of myself and I have an engaging personality . I didn't know there were so many single (divorced or never married) women. I do flirt with them sometimes but I just stop there. I have teenage twins 14 years old extremely difficult to handle. They are going through their phase and I have my hand full. But maybe once they get out of that phase I'll be mentally ready to devote sometime to someone. |
When I was in HS I had a crush on a friends dad. He still looks great 20+ years later. |
You are correct! |
| In my early 40s I seem to exclusively attract men 55-60+. Rarely men my own age even though I am often mistaken for being in my 30s. |
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Often. They think I'm cute and that they have no chance, so it lowers their inhibitions. It's a nice dynamic, because it provides a moment of fun to both parties, and it's guaranteed to go nowhere.
I hardly ever get a compliment from men of my age and socio-economic background. They don't dare. |
| Ageist. |
Why do all women in their 40s say that lol? |
| If men are hot it’s ok. If not no matter the age it’s creepy. |