
What is your kid's GPA? |
How do you know that the child was barely getting by academically? Did you see this child’s transcript? Btw, if true this isn’t Sidwell’s fault. It’s actually a compliment to Sidwell and the parents’ pull. If you’re looking for a villain, blame the “Top 5 college” that admitted the student. |
GDS parent, I bet your kid is also genuinely interesting with great essays. Can't this be a "hook" too (maybe meant in a slightly different way)? GPA can get you in the door but is not sufficient. People throw around GPA + scores like there is a formula, and there just isn't. You cannot compare one kid to another like apples to apples. I will even be so bold as to say...IME...private school kids, maybe by virtue of being in an environment that accepts and nurtures their quirks, are more likely to have that extra "something." |
Well knock me over with a feather.
Sidwell* only accepts kids who have great test and/or academic chops plus legacy/athletic/national-level ED/connections. That is, Sidwell only accepts the kids who are best positioned to get into T25s before they even walk through Sidwell's doors. Then these same kids apply ED because their parents can afford to. And, lo and behold, they get into a T25. Is anybody surprised by this? The real question is, what is Sidwell's value added here? Would the same kid have had the same results coming from BCC? (Yes, you can talk about academic preparation, but that's a whole 'nother debate, and this thread is about college admissions.) * Not to rag on Sidwell, but folks here seem to be using it as shorthand for top DC privates. |
What makes you think quirky kids don't thrive in public schools? I begged my parents to let me leave my small private. When I got to the local public, which was much larger, I found my people. If your point is that private school families can afford to send Brett to fencing tournaments and to buy a horse for Muffy's equestrian events, then yes. * my kids have done private and public schools |
Of course! Why do you think they ask on application where parents went to college??? |
yes, we know all of that. I am also curious about what this kid's GPA was that they just got into a top25 school unhooked. |
I've heard these days admissions officers check LinkedIn for the parents' creds. But same idea. |
I'm not PP but a fellow parent of that class. I think it means that there can be students that end up at Ivy for college despite not excelling at SFS. (this is not to say that's the case for all legacy/VIP....but it certainly can be said for some) |
Gross |
There are some cases where it is glaringly clear a classmate isn't anywhere close to being the top, in any of their classes. Kids know this - they are small classes. |
Did you just say private school kids are more interesting than public school kids? 🤮 |
Do you really believe this is true? It's not. |
I guess you just learned today that selective college admissions isn’t a meritocracy. Sad you. 😞 |
Congrats - that's great for your kid an the ones you know. But just because there are "some" doesn't meant it's common. It isn't. And, you often don't know what hooks other kids have. We only learned about them senior year after all was said and done. |