Married men with a married AP

[Anonymous]

How many men have an AP but still sleep with other women? Im curious if this is common or I just found the wrong guy. I've been with my AP for years and just found out there were other women in his life. How do I know? Well his wife found the text chain from the night they spent together. A night of travel for work when he told me he loved me before and after he hooked up with his other side chick.

[Anonymous]

😂

[Anonymous]

Once that line has been crossed, it's a lot easier to keep on crossing it. It's also no harder to lie to someone you're not married to and who you know is fine with infidelity, when you're already lying to your spouse.

[Anonymous]

Cheaters cheat

[Anonymous]

You, a cheater, were expecting fidelity from another cheater? Lmaof !!!!!!

[Anonymous]

Wait, what?! You are married and you affair partner is married and you want this cheater to be faithful to you, a cheater?

[Anonymous]

Not all guys are like that. I want only one AP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How many men have an AP but still sleep with other women? Im curious if this is common or I just found the wrong guy. I've been with my AP for years and just found out there were other women in his life. How do I know? Well his wife found the text chain from the night they spent together. A night of travel for work when he told me he loved me before and after he hooked up with his other side chick.

You’re surprised that trash begets trash?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not all guys are like that. I want only one AP.

Exactly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not all guys are like that. I want only one AP.

Exactly.

PP. Maybe the difference is between the guy hiding it from DW vs DW is ok with it?

[Anonymous]

DW not ok they are getting a divorce and now he's sworn respect and honesty to me. I know what I need to do which is end it but it's very hard. Yes I was expecting a cheater to not cheat on me. There was no point I would have been fine with an open more casual connection but he went full in with the daily I love yous

[Anonymous]

Wait, you are asking if cheaters are prone to cheating?

And you will gauge your tolerance for such behavior around whether other men say they treat women like this too?

You really need better self esteem. And TBH, he cannot respect anyone who stays with someone like him.

Please get therapy. It makes me sad to know there are women who think this is all they deserve.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not all guys are like that. I want only one AP.

Does that make you a top tier cheater?

[Anonymous]

He was love bombing you and you need to end this.

I am married and with a married AP and I absolutely expect him to keep me informed of all his relationships. Even cheaters has a code with other cheaters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Not all guys are like that. I want only one AP.

Does that make you a top tier cheater?

Np. A monogamous cheater.