Ugly women...what are your lives like?

[Anonymous]

Did you get married? Are you rich? Do you have children? What do you do for work? Are you happy?

[Anonymous]

For every pot there is a lid.

[Anonymous]

My friends daughter is not attractive.

And when she lived at home before college her mother who is not great at picking clothes and loved her first born son more than her daughter obvious the young lady struggled socially. Bowl haircuts not a great look.

Well college came and she figured out what looked good on her how to make amazing fun lovely friends.

RN for career loves it

I just attended her wedding. She is on cloud nine and I’m super happy for her.

[Anonymous]

Most people probably think I’m ugly because I’m obese and have been since puberty. But I have a wonderful marriage, two kids who seem to love me, a nice house and great pets. I make close to $200k, do tons of volunteer work and have many friends, some from over 40 years ago and others i met this past year. I never let my looks stop me and am not hung up on them. Not sure what you’re looking for with this question, but life is for living. I admire beauty but it just didn’t come my way.

[Anonymous]

Yes.yes.no.n/a, yes.

[Anonymous]

Beauty is subjective OP and date I say you are ugly inside for even dating to think you can call anyone ugly.

[Anonymous]

Married, make $180k with bachelor's in a liberal arts field (Fed job), two grown children, rarely happy but that's not entirely because I'm unattractive. Hope this helps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you get married? Are you rich? Do you have children? What do you do for work? Are you happy?

Yes, I got married. Rich? I don't think so but we do alright. HHI is over $600K. I have 3 kids. I'm an attorney. Yes, I'm happy.

I don't know what you mean by ugly. I am no longer attractive if that's what you mean. I have gained 30 lbs since marriage and am now overweight. I am trying to lose about 17 lbs by end of year

[Anonymous]

Bizarro question. Among many reasons, based on who’s beauty standards?

[Anonymous]

I don’t think I’m pretty and certainly never got a lot of male attention. I am married, have two teens, make about 200k (my husband makes about the same). I am happy, yes. I think I have a pretty great personality, I am kind and funny and grateful. Probably because I had to be? But especially nice as I get older - I’ve never been one who gets hit on anyway, so not mourning the loss of male attention.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Did you get married? Are you rich? Do you have children? What do you do for work? Are you happy?

Yes, I got married. Rich? I don't think so but we do alright. HHI is over $600K. I have 3 kids. I'm an attorney. Yes, I'm happy.

I don't know what you mean by ugly. I am no longer attractive if that's what you mean. I have gained 30 lbs since marriage and am now overweight. I am trying to lose about 17 lbs by end of year

Lol. Never change, dcum.

[Anonymous]

I’ve never been pretty (I’m less than average - have a crooked nose, weird shaped mouth, close set eyes, bad skin), but when I was in my twenties I was fit and was well groomed. I married a great guy and have two great kids (neither of whom is particularly attractive either) and I’m a successful attorney (I don’t think my lack of looks has ever held me up professionally). Now that I’m in my 50s I’m even less attractive because, well, aging, but I’ve had several health issues and am just very grateful my body is continuing to keep on keeping on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never been pretty (I’m less than average - have a crooked nose, weird shaped mouth, close set eyes, bad skin), but when I was in my twenties I was fit and was well groomed. I married a great guy and have two great kids (neither of whom is particularly attractive either) and I’m a successful attorney (I don’t think my lack of looks has ever held me up professionally). Now that I’m in my 50s I’m even less attractive because, well, aging, but I’ve had several health issues and am just very grateful my body is continuing to keep on keeping on.

Oh and I have many great friends and family, so all in all I’d say I have a great life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve never been pretty (I’m less than average - have a crooked nose, weird shaped mouth, close set eyes, bad skin), but when I was in my twenties I was fit and was well groomed. I married a great guy and have two great kids (neither of whom is particularly attractive either) and I’m a successful attorney (I don’t think my lack of looks has ever held me up professionally). Now that I’m in my 50s I’m even less attractive because, well, aging, but I’ve had several health issues and am just very grateful my body is continuing to keep on keeping on.

I could have written this, except I am late 40s. Also have a great life.

Only difference is that my kids are extremely attractive. I worry about my daughters given how scary creepy and threatening male attention was as an average looking 20 something. From what I hear it’s even worse and as beautiful young woman.

[Anonymous]

What are you looking for OP? I was a 5 in my prime. I married a 3 who worshipped me. I was valedictorian and am now a very successful intellectual. Two kids. Also not high on the attractive scale but they have other talents and attributes.

I remember at need camp the pretty girl was miserable that she didn’t make friends there, which our counselor told us about. Life is a funny place.

I appreciate being very high IQ these days because looks fade before IQ does. But really death stops for all of us, even if we don’t want to stop for it. As does the boredom and incapacitation of old age.