Stay at Home Girlfriends

[Anonymous]

This is now a big thing. My question why did it not happen sooner?

Back when I was single many years ago, I had my own apartment and lived alone for 8 years.

One girl I dated was absolutely beautiful and a lot of fun. But not marriage material. At that time she quit work for two years to do grad school, moved home and had no job.

In retrospect she should have been my stay at home girlfriend. I owned a coop with all utilities included so her moving in would cost me zero extra.

I have a beautiful girl to sleep with every night, someone around in case a delivery, someone to eat dinner with and unlimited sex. She would be out of her crappy childhood bedroom and living in a place she could not afford for free.

It all makes perfect sense.

A working girlfriend is just annoying none of money she earns is mine. She is not around when I want to hang out.

My none working GF a few times I had two locks on door. I gave her key to one. She came over 2-3 times after school made dinner, hung out. Put in sexy outfit and I walked home to a great night.

Was I stupid not to make her a live in girlfriend?

I dated girls in investment banking and law and found it very annoying. They were always changing meeting times, stressed from work, not in any mood to relax but none of their money was mine. I was just a BF.

And a stay at home GF tons of benefits too for them.

Am I crazy? But it is all the rage now.

[Anonymous]

Getting my popcorn ready, this should be good.

[Anonymous]

It's a great idea if you are a high earner or wealthy. Get a super hot girl to be available to you. Just keep your money as yours.

[Anonymous]

It's a terrible waste of years of the girl's life.

[Anonymous]

They can be hard to get rid of unless you're thinking of commitment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's a terrible waste of years of the girl's life.

Agreed.

[Anonymous]

I think your vision of how this would play out might not actually be how it would play out.

[Anonymous]

These women are idiots. They’ll regret it after they turn 35.

[Anonymous]

If you are posting on DCUM on a Sunday, you are not sufficiently attractive to have a SAH girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

I would never do that and I worry for the girl friends’ future especially in a scenario like OP describes where he has no intention of marrying her. I wouldn’t want to do it as the boyfriend either, I guess; why sign up to support an unrelated adult?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They can be hard to get rid of unless you're thinking of commitment.

Yeah, ask tiger woods 😂

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:These women are idiots. They’ll regret it after they turn 35.

I'm not sure these women exist as described, exactly, as opposed to being influencers (or trying to be influencers).

[Anonymous]

Grad school isn’t doing nothing. She probably had assignments due, studying, had to go to class etc. I’m sure there was some stress too and she likely had her own feelings about whether or not she wanted to have sex on any given day.

[Anonymous]

The trick is to find someone fun enough to fall for this trap, but smart enough not to be insufferably annoying.

But if she can save enough money and pick up extra from working other guys during the day, or pursuing education to get ta career after she ages out of sugar babying, it can be a win-win.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:These women are idiots. They’ll regret it after they turn 35.

They are social influencer entrepreneurs who are milking this life style for as long as it brings clicks, followers and money. They'll move on once it stops generating income.