If this is your definition of "unprofessional behavior," I sure would hate to work for you. I can assure you that I deal with far more extreme examples, daily, from employees that I work with. This is not "unprofessional behavior" to have an agitated breathing pattern and tone. You have no idea that he generallylacks the ability to control emotions when someone disagrees with him, beyond this one small example, which is debatable at best. And why the hell should he enter "counseling" for something this subjective and, frankly, stupid? Based on your criteria here, most of the posters on this thread should be in "counseling" because they don't know how to play nice with each other. Are you going to turn us all over to the moderator, because you can't stand to see that we disagree with you? |
NP, circumstances matter. I have been treated horribly by a few colleagues, that is true. That doesn't make it OK, and it doesn't mean it's ok that my office does nothing about it. And even the evilest of my colleagues knows how to comport themselves during a speaker's panel, during a hearing, and in a dr's office. The guy has emotional problems and it's noticeable enough that it made others at UVA uncomfortable. Given the increase in mental health related violence in this country, specifically in schools, I have to approve of their taking steps to address this student's palpable hostility. |
Just because you work in a toxic environment doesn’t mean everybody had too. Maybe truck drivers have a different expectation of behavior than a doctor in training. There were multiple examples. This is just one of many. The presenter said he seemed frustrated and he does. Truthfully you sound like you could benefit from counseling. If you become belligerent I will report you and Jeff will delete your comment, so yes. |
Your take is interesting. I didn’t hear anger or aggression, I heard frustration and fear. As a matter of fact, I thought a couple of the questioners were downright hostile to him. He was being railroaded which increased his anxiety and frustration. Really sad. It was telling that no patient had ever complained him. I hope he wis the case |
| I hope that Nora Kern and all of those involved face some sort of punishment. She filed a complaint because someone asked a legitimate question. She got offended because deep down inside she knew that he was right. Looks like the nerds from high school are turning into bullies. |
^^^ wrong side of history |
+1. Such a strange case. Kieran had apparently done well his first year of med school and was even coauthor of a research article. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31700237/ If he had a sudden change in behavior, why wasn’t the school reaching out and trying to help him? |
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This is a situation straight up out of Kafka.
If you haven't been in a Kafka-esque situation, you should not be questioning the stability of the student. |
If accelerated breathing patterns and changes in vocal pitch are enough boot people, only psychopaths would make it through college, much less med school. |
And deep down she knows she is right, or at least believes without question she is right. This type of stuff is dogma, like religion for them. Just like religions demand purity and expel those who are schismatics/heretics, so to does this movement. |
| I had a professor in law school who would teach about microaggressions etc rather than the law. She considered critical questions to be microaggressions (if you were white) but, unlike this guy, I learned to keep my mouth shut so I could get a job. |
that’s a shame because there are a lot of interesting legal questions around microaggressions. a talented professor could simultaneously deliver content on how microaggression has a real subjective impact on some people, and how the law can or cannot take it into account. 1st amendment v workplace harassment law. all law students ought to be able to benefit from an approach like that. not that dissimilar to how rape is taught in crim law. the professors have to teach the difficult cases and can’t just say “all victims are right.” |
| Not surprised to read this. I attended UVA School of Nursing years ago and it was pretty apparent that to do well one needed to toe the line and not question authority. I have good self preservation skills so was able to do well, but if I had spoken up about various issues I saw there I’m sure I would have fallen into the trap. “Concern”> recommendation for counseling > disciplinary action. Kieran’s problem was he got rattled and didn’t grovel enough. (perhaps some paranoia as well?who knows) |
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It only confirms my impressions that colleges in VA are full of bullies, and racists.
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It's almost like the health care field, especially in a hospital setting, his hierarchal or something. |