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No one with plans to go to college should be on the standard track.
Oh, come on. Get your head out of Northern Virginia. TONS of kids all over the country are taking "standard track" everything and going to college. You do realize there are still a fair number of schools/school systems out there that do not have the same class offerings we have here, right?
This is just such small thinking.
I want my kids to get into UVA, VT, JMU, William & Mary. If you're okay with Christopher Newport or Radford or paying twice as much for a "good" school out of state that's fine. I'm not. Our kids have to compete with the other Northern Virginia kids for spots. There may or may not be official quotas at the state schools, but the admissions office definitely compares applicants against all the other applicants from the same school and county. If one kid has a less rigorous course load they aren't getting in.
This is exactly us too.
What happens if they don't make it into one of them? Game over at 17-18 years old?
They would have to go to a lesser school. Obviously it wouldn’t be game over you idiot.
Idiot PP here. Have you gone through the college admissions process at all yet with any of your children? If you have, then we could debate whether or not I'm an idiot. If you haven't, then frankly, you don't know what you're talking about. There are so many high achieving kids in this county who could probably thrive at your choices. They do all the right things, take all the right classes, get wonderful scores and grades and still get rejected/waitlisted/deferred. Pop on over to the college board this time of year and there is always a thread or five about managing the disappointment and scrambling for a Plan B. And it's all so opaque, you never find out why you were rejected and someone with the same stats was accepted. Then the whole family feels let down, the senior may feel like a failure and that they couldn't live up to your expectations. Do you really want them to start out life feeling like a disappointment? I'm not an idiot or delusional, just a parent who had to navigate the college application process with Math that was taught by Powerpoint. But, you do you. Things will most likely turn out fine, but how are you all going to manage if they don't?