Are most girls just mean?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Many girls are not mean, but most of them form their tiny circles and they are not inclusive to other kids outside of their circle. They don't say mean words but they ignore your existences and not responding to you. Not thick skin kids take the cues and know that they are not really welcomed to join them to hang out or play together.

This is absolutely what it looks like. I'm genuinely curious -"cool" kids excluding others is an age old problem - why isn't the obvious solution coaching the excluded kids to make their own groups of genuine, nice friends? It seems like such a simple solution over begging for inclusion, or pressuring to invite the whole class or whatever. Forcing yourself into a friend group never ends well. Why isn't that the lesson?

It’s not just the girls who think they are cool it’s different types oof girls who will all of a sudden exclude a certain kid out of the blue.