Husband checks out 20 yr olds

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Anonymous wrote:Husband does this sneaky staring anytime he sees a 20 year old with lots of exposed skin. We’re mid 40s. I’ve brought it up many times and he denies it. It’s gotten to the point where I see the young women before he does, as I now know his type.

I don’t even know what my question is. It’s just gross and depressing.


Is this something new or you married him knowing it?
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


There are many genres of porn. Lots of sugar daddy and older men with younger women. That doesn’t mean those younger women are watching that porn. Only a small number of young men are into older women. The majority look at you like a mother or grandma or a creep. You’re a creep if you’re leering at young men.


Yeah no duh, because it's overwhelmingly men who watch porn. Meaning porn categories are an indicator of what men are fantasizing about, not women. And a lot of young men are fantasizing about sleeping with their friend's mom or the 45 year old neighbor
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.


What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Absolutely not. It's one of the most popular categories across all age groups. "Stepmom" porn is also insanely popular
The models they use definitely don’t look middle aged ladies. Lots of the ladies in that category are still in their 20s but they call them milfs.


Many, many of them are in their 40s or older.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Absolutely not. It's one of the most popular categories across all age groups. "Stepmom" porn is also insanely popular
The models they use definitely don’t look middle aged ladies. Lots of the ladies in that category are still in their 20s but they call them milfs.


Many, many of them are in their 40s or older.


But let's face it. Top 1 percent in attractiveness among that population
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Note to men. Women find it gross when you ogle girls/women old enough to be your daughter. I hated it when I was young. No 16-23 year old girl finds 40 year men attractive. I never see women ogling teenage boys. Probably because it’s gross.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.

"Research shows"? Post your findings, please.
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Anonymous wrote:Typical sexist DCUM. Roles reversed, everyone would be applauding the cougar for checking out young hot men. It’s apparently only creepy when it’s a guy doing it. The woman would be met with glee and comments like “ take him home”. Prove me wrong but you can’t. A lot of misandrists throwing around sexism on this site but they get a pass because they’re a woman.

- Signed a woman who hates women like this.


It's almost like men and women are different and have different sexual crime statistics


It's almost like apples and oranges are different fruits. Idiot.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


There are many genres of porn. Lots of sugar daddy and older men with younger women. That doesn’t mean those younger women are watching that porn. Only a small number of young men are into older women. The majority look at you like a mother or grandma or a creep. You’re a creep if you’re leering at young men.


Yeah no duh, because it's overwhelmingly men who watch porn. Meaning porn categories are an indicator of what men are fantasizing about, not women. And a lot of young men are fantasizing about sleeping with their friend's mom or the 45 year old neighbor


They don’t but I see you need to tell yourself that to make yourself feel attractive and appealing since your husband doesn’t want to f*ck you anymore.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.


What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?


Not the young 20’s that many on here are referencing. A 20 year old boy doesn’t want to sleep with his older middle aged neighbor.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.

"Research shows"? Post your findings, please.


Google.

According to research, the MILF genre of pornography, which often depicts older women as sexual figures, predominantly attracts viewers aged 25-45.
Here's a breakdown of viewership within that age range:
25-34 year olds: This age group makes up a significant portion of overall porn viewers, including those who are interested in the MILF genre.
35-44 year olds: Similar to the 25-34 age group, this demographic also shows considerable interest in the MILF genre, reflecting their adult interests in relatable and mature scenarios.


I guess some of you are butt hurt that younger men don’t find you attractive. What creeps to be leering over a man young enough to be your son.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


There are many genres of porn. Lots of sugar daddy and older men with younger women. That doesn’t mean those younger women are watching that porn. Only a small number of young men are into older women. The majority look at you like a mother or grandma or a creep. You’re a creep if you’re leering at young men.


Yeah no duh, because it's overwhelmingly men who watch porn. Meaning porn categories are an indicator of what men are fantasizing about, not women. And a lot of young men are fantasizing about sleeping with their friend's mom or the 45 year old neighbor


Someone told me that it’s pretty difficult to avoid the incest porn these days. So even for those who aren’t looking for it, it is heavily promoted. Weird stuff
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Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman. I check out pretty 20 year olds. I’m not gay. I just notice attractive people. Male and female.

But, is he being obvious about it, like ogling. That's rude, disrespectful to OP and creepy to the young woman.


By and large those women deliberately dress in a manner to attract attention.

It just sometimes doesn’t occur to them that it won’t only attract the eyeballs of their peers. But they don’t have a right to complain about being creeped out by an older man looking, too, and you don’t get to call a man creepy on their behalf because you are insecure and jealous. It isn’t a good look.

You are wrong, and you are a creep. A young woman wearing shorts and a tank top because it’s warm out is not dressing for attention. Do you always blame what the woman for her attire when sexually harassed or assaulted? Sure sounds like you do.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.


What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?


Not the young 20’s that many on here are referencing. A 20 year old boy doesn’t want to sleep with his older middle aged neighbor.

Guess you forgot about Stacy’s mom? Maybe YOU don’t like that genre, but plenty of others do. Your denial of societal trends because they don’t fit your narrow view is bizarre.
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Anonymous wrote:I have heard plenty of middle aged women saying raunchy things about college aged males.


We just cant help ourselves, it's biology 🤷‍♀️ They are at the peak of their fertility and women are visual creatures


Such a dumb take. The same thing could be said about men. FYI - you look creepy too staring at young men who don’t want your frumpy old lady body.


Considering how popular MILF porn is that's clearly not true.


Most of that watched is by middle aged men. Young men do not want a mom with a whole lot of baggage who is most likely frumpy and not attractive.


Research shows milf/stepmom porn is largely viewed by 25-45 year olds. Not younger men.


What research? 25 is still fairly young, no?


Not the young 20’s that many on here are referencing. A 20 year old boy doesn’t want to sleep with his older middle aged neighbor.

Guess you forgot about Stacy’s mom? Maybe YOU don’t like that genre, but plenty of others do. Your denial of societal trends because they don’t fit your narrow view is bizarre.


Clearly you don’t know what Stacy’s mom even is. Stacy’s mom was a song about a pedo older in a towel in front of a minor child. There was nothing appropriate about the song. The kid was like 12. Creep.
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