We are about to be Sidwell parents for high school and of course college admissions is one of the reasons we chose it. No expectation that kid is going to an ivy, but great college counselling and preparation is definitely a draw. But college is certainly not the only reason we picked it - we were impressed with the quality of the education, the curriculum, choice of classes, teaching, facilities and the very nice and normal people we met through the process. We are not obsessed with prestige either, but I imagine you will not believe that or anything I’ve said here! |
Different schools different kids. Sidwell has a lot more money as a community. Kids will go Tulane over UMBC because they have the resources. While there are immigrant a second generation families at Sidwell, public magnets have more. Many families have political connections or generational wealth high gives an edge in college admissions. So given that context, kids from public magnets do well. |
Actually it looks like RM has plenty of kids attending top SLACs. A smaller percentage than Sidwell. |
Yes, they are very different schools so I don’t know why anyone mentioned those two public schools in the first place. This thread is about Sidwell, so two random public magnet schools in Maryland shouldn’t even enter this conversation. It’s akin to comparing apples and cars. They are not the same. |
Do the math. By any metric, the Sidwell-rescue privates do objectively better by leaps and bounds for their students. Any. Give me your very best magnetic/public Insta vs Sidwell this year and I will explain it to ya. |
Having "college in mind" doesn't mean that admissions is anywhere near the top of reasons for choosing private school. For many, including us, it was at best the fifth or sixth reason. |
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Rich people’s kids don’t need to go to top schools. They are already set for life.
It’s the UMC who are obsessed! They need a top school to stay in the UMC. |
True. Yet many of the rich Sidwell families most definitely send their children to top schools, and it’s their priority. Two things can be true at the same time. |
Bingo. Accounting for hooks, RMIB and Blair have far better college outcomes per capita. And they are free. |
You can make up numbers as much as you like, but they're wrong. For the last 4 years ('20-24), they have been a grand total of Zero, nil, MIT matriculation from Sidwell. |
Its a fight that those 2 STEM schools have won long ago. |
You can count on one hand the number of kids going to MIT from Sidwell in the 21st century. The schools do not have much of a history with each other. |
There is not a single family who puts their kid in Sidwell who has zero interest in the prestige of the school. Full stop. |
That’s not necessarily true. There are RMIB and Blair parents who are Ivy plus legacies, and/or have children who are recruited athletes. You will never know everyone’s hidden hooks (including public school students). Public school parents graduate from top colleges too. However, per capita, Sidwell families are richer than RMIB and Blair families. |
If you’ll notice, I didn’t say “zero interest”, I said “not obsessed with”. Happy to admit that “prestige” was one element of our decision, though certainly not the most important part |