He thinks he's "working poor". he's not. He simply isn't budgeting well and likely wasting money on entertainment/bars/eating out/door dash. However he's 35 and still has student loans. But doesn't appear to be a lawyer or doctor, so there is not reason his student loans are not paid off at age 35. Stop the door dash/bar hopping and put the extra $200-400/month towards the loans and make them disappear. Simply put, he has the ability to save much more and still "live well". At 35, have friends over to your apartment/their homes every other weekend and skip the bars, that will be much cheaper and you can still socialize. |
Agreed. However if he's only paying $100/month he likely isn't working to actually pay them off in a timely manner. That should be his first concern---get rid of that debt. |
DP: it doesn't matter. They don't eat out much/door dash at all/likely are not bar hopping every weekend. Their student loans are paid off. It's the concept of paying off debt in a timely manner (not so if you are 35 with loans), not wasting money on food when you cannot really afford it. Sure at $110K you can afford to eat out sometimes. You can door dash some, but you will be eating out less if you do that as you will be spending $10-20+ for privilege of door dash. Pick up your takeout and then you can do it a 2nd day for the same amount total. |
OP - break out the credit card bill for an average month. 2k for everything doesn’t tell us much. |
| This is a super simple fix. Stop all eating out and all door dash and drinks. Cook at home. Perhaps budget $100 a month for going out. You're not poor, you're entitled and undisciplined. |