| Went to an Ivy camp and coach indicated you needed a 1400 SAT (I think lots of athletes have the grades or at least seemed to in my kids sport, a popular team sport). The coaches are looking for the very best athletes that can pass a pre-read. Some of the high academic D3 schools are more interested in really high stat kids than the Ivies as they have less pull with admissions or maybe pull for only 2 players (Swarthmore, Williams, Amherst, MIT, John Hopkins, Carnegie Mellon, etc.). At some of these schools my sense was that a really high stats kid becomes very attractive…. The Ivies are all D1 so coaches have pull and want the top athletes that are good students, versus some of the high academic D3s that to pass admissions the coaches might be ok with good (mind you college level recruitable) athlete that has great academics. |
| This was 25 years ago, but I was recruited by talking to coaches directly. In my case, these convos were facilitated by my coach who was well-respected in the sport and reached out to the coaches at my schools of choice on my behalf. Ended up not getting an official recruit “slot” at my first choice ivy (I wasn’t quite good enough compared to the other athletes in the recruit pool) but the coach recognized my potential and wanted me on the team and I was admitted (I did have the grades and scores to meet the qualification bar for general admissions). I’d suggest reaching out to coaches directly at your kid’s dream schools. |
I agree with this. That’s next-level gross behavior, far beyond normal sports trash talk. |
Maybe in your circles that sort of nastiness was encouraged and routine. But that is not representative. I went to HYPS too and it was not at all common. I remember a few kids who started talking that way and they were widely disliked. |
PP, what steps did your son take to be recruited? Camps? Film submission? Are you in the DMV? |
DCUM is full of posters who seem to think that anybody who is less intelligent is somehow worthless and not just a target for comments like PP and the horrible child she raised, but also that they are not worthy of opportunities to succeed or a decent life. The complete lack of any depth of thinking, much less human understanding, continues to horrify me. I don't believe in karma, but if I did, I would say that most likely PP's kid will show up at her Ivy and spend four years--if she lasts that long--riding the bench. |
Can you all not understand that people are born with a varying level of strengths and attributes?? Some have incredibly high intellect, while many more, of course, have average intellect. Fortunately, our society allows people of all levels and types of intellect, who are also blessed with hard word ethic in addition to other characteristics, including the ability to learn, to have the same opportunities as those who were fortunate enough to be born highly intelligent. I see nothing wrong with that. |
+1. Intellectual ability can be a form of privilege that some believe makes you "better than" others. Of course, athletic ability can be the same, but DCUM places innate athletic ability below innate intelligence ability. Or, DCUM refuses to accept that the two abilities can sometimes go hand in hand. If the school wants to field a successful team, though, it is within its right to select student athletes to do so. It does not have to accept students solely based on a hierarchy of test scores. |
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Depending on the sport and your financial situation, it can be relatively easy to get an offer but hard to afford.
If your kid has an offer, you've likely been able to afford private training, elite camps, travel teams, etc., so may not qualify for any financial aid and could be expected to be full pay. If you're not wealthy and have other kids going to college, this can be a challenge, especially when other schools are offering athletic scholarships. It's great if you're wealthy enough to afford it, though. |
Sure. But why athletic ability? If you were a world class cello player, you might be able to go to a music focused elite school like Julliard with less than perfect grades. But you wouldn’t make it past the door at the Ivy. But you could if you play lacrosse. How does that make any sense? It’s not that schools are looking for a variety of talents. I think that is great. But that they lower academic standards for sports talent only. Just seems bizarre. But, my kid is not Ivy bound either on their academic or sports ability so I guess it’s not relevant to me. |
| My kid was an athletic recruit to an Ivy and ended up graduating summa/phi beta kappa. It’s nonsense that recruited athletes are less intelligent. There’s a range of skills and work ethic just like there is in the entire class. |
| Yes, and recruited athletes more often than not have great outcomes professionally and are in a position to give back to the school, hire other grads etc. I have seen this first hand with my own kids. Being on a team and knowing how to be a team player is great preparation for the real world where quite often you have to sublimate your personal desires to the goals of the team. There is a reason the Ivys place such a big emphasis on recruited athletes and it’s not just for the diversity factor. |
I really hate these simplifications of playing a sport and real life. Almost all ECs involve being on a “team”…whether it is a sport, participating in a play, being part of an orchestra, etc. I have never cared nor do any of my colleagues care about an athlete and teamwork when hiring because it actually is not unique at all. We do care about client-facing roles and how athletes and sports are naturally more common areas of interest working in finance, and we appreciate the competitive drive. However, we love certain theatre kids…especially ones that end up directing student productions because that actually takes an incredible skill set to manage practices (you figure which scenes, who needs to show up from cast and crew that day, etc). Also, some of the most competitive kids come from orchestra and things like the chess team and they make great traders. |
Theatre kids don’t get yelled at every day in practice
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Sure they could be as or more academically qualified than their peers. Point here is that they don’t need to be. No kid with a 1200 and a talent in the arts is getting in. But a lax player apparently is. |