We are doing it now, just had to wait for the kids to get out of the house/off to college. I join my spouse on work trips and then they continue to work from wherever remotely part of the day for the next week or so. More challenging to be gone for 2-3 weeks when you still have children at home |
5.5M and ignoring real inflation |
But why? When you are elderly to require care you are either disabled to take care of yourself but sharp of mind or you are mentally not there with various levels of dementia. In the former case you would always prefer to have some worker come in to do cleaning, cooking, maybe light nursing assistance and live at home unless you are severely disabled. In the latter case.. depending on how "not there" you will be: would you even notice if you are in 400K a year facility or in a less expensive one or a government subsidized one? You are brain dead. I would just request to be euthanized... Is it really worth it having to grind for the rest of your still healthy younger years to wait to live until your body starts giving out in hopes of being taking care of when you are a vegetable and have zero QOL anyway? |
RE keeps up with inflation. Rental RE can return profits that can outperform conservative "safe" guaranteed type of market investments. I am surprised none of you have rental RE in your portfolio, is market really this much better? |
Yeah, but not impossible, a lot of people do this. If you have family overseas you probably go for a month with kids, it's not uncommon, I have friends who do this every summer. For a 2 week vacation? You can do this during winter break or summer break. The only thing that sucks is higher prices to go and more crowded places of interest. We find deals and generally travel on the budget. We aren't waiting to be empty nesters. We took kids to Europe (on the budget, which is exhausting, but fun) a few years in the row. We go to beach vacations, visit family in diff cities, theme parks, etc. We are poor by the standards of some of the posters here, though objectively, not poor. We just try to balance enjoying some of your life while you still have to work, but when you still have energy and health and not feel like life has to be only grind and waiting to live till you are frail. |
Not really. Actually majority of my NW is in RE. I'm trying to diversify into equity market. |
You are not "brain dead" just because you require assisted living or memory care. I have a relative who has been in "memory care" for over 2 years now and I still have meaningful Facetimes/phone calls weekly with them, 95% of the time. As long as their meds are well managed they are still doing well. This person reads books, does puzzles and plays games all the time. Yes there are people with more advanced issues in the memory care, but my relative is still definately in a position of "life is worth living" and aware of their surroundings and family. And this is after 2 years there. If anything, they are doing better in the full time care as they know there is 24 hour excellent care and they get to interact with more people which is good for them. But they did not feel "safe" at home with their memory issues, so for them it's actually better to be under the full time care and much more cost effective than care at home. |
Early Retired Biglaw Partner here. I also have a rental property as well as an English basement apartment that I rent out. Combined they generate $6k a month. |
Have you all had anything major go wrong yet? Rental properties are great until.... they aren't, even if you go the property manager route. |
| Most landlords are tough with rent increases and rarely make great improvements. Being a good landlord who cares about people and still makes a lot of money at scale is tough and rare in my experience. Most of the people I know making large amounts of money through real estate rentals just are not compassionate people or basically don't know what their property managers are doing. They really are more like the guys convincing you to get rich in real estate online. There are other threads on strivers on DCUM and I'd put a fair number of them in that category that has negative connotations. |
+1 Personally don't have the guts to be a landlord. Too much can go wrong and end up costing you. Fact is tenants rarely take care of home as well as you would. We did rent our condo for 5 years, but it was to good friends. So we knew they would take excellent care of it, and we also planned to gut it and renovate before we moved in at the end of the lease. But no way do I want to rent to someone I don't know. In our condo building, there was a renter who got pissed at multiple noise complaints and fines against them, so they turned on several faucets and closed the drains and left....they were on the 20th floor and caused major damages to at least 6 units. This is in a luxury building, one of the top 5 buildings in our city--rent for that was over $5K, so typically you'd think someone paying that would be less likely to be destructive. Oh and the tenant was a doctor, so someone that you would vet and never think twice about them going crazy and doing something as destructive as this. Yet, the owner had to along with their insurance and the HOA insurance sue the tenant for the $100k's+++++ in damages---I think it was well over $600K in damages and that was 10 years ago. I'd rather just invest in real estate passively |
+1 My parents did well with rental houses when I was growing up but the headaches were crazy and when there were problems, they were often big, expensive, and untimely. If you are already comfortable, it just doesn't seem worth it unless you have a really good property manager. My parents had a property manager and it was still tough since major escalations and expenses still got to them. |
Well, yeah, there is no easy ride investing if you want to make profit. Neither is investing in the markets. Some people got wiped out even investing conservatively or lost their earnings instead of growing them. Nothing is easy. I guess people just do what they feel most comfortable with. What you describe is common, repairs are annoying and issues can happen anytime when you are on vacation, day off, etc. But they aren't the norm and major expenses are usually every handful of years relating to having to replace pricier things. Routine issues like clogged toilet or sink or a minor repair many landlords learn to fix themselves, which works if you are handy and saves a lot. If you have a professional management company then no headaches and just costs. Like with everything. |
What happens to poor people who require memory care? I don't see them dying on the streets, wandering around or burning their apartments down en masse. |
Not really, no. The one rental is my basement so it’s not hard to keep maintained. The other is half of a side-by-side duplex. Not super high end but in a highly desirable location in the DMV. We’re pretty good about keeping the places up because tenants pay good rent and deserve it. We will probably sell the duplex when the current tenants vacate, which won’t be for a while. |