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+100 There is no reason to jump in to marriage/children so early other than to be controlled and poor. |
What on earth? No, although it’s far better for a 19 year old to give birth than it is for a 10 year old to give birth, outcomes for pregnant 19 year olds is still much worse than it is for a 20 something. The teenaged body is still very immature in a lot of ways. So it’s not bad science, it’s pointing out that teen pregnancy is bad. |
20-24 is also ideal for finishing college, getting a MA, experiencing the world, traveling, living abroad, getting your career going. Try doing any of that with kids in tow. Sure you can. Especially if you are a man whose partner does all the child rearing. A lot harder when you are a woman and are expecting to take care of kids and a man. |
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Why are you finding this contradictory? There are a lot of Christian families who chose to divorce. It does not mean that they are against family values or not pro-marriage. |
It does, actually. They spend a lot of time railing against divorce, but when push comes to shove a lot of “Christians” think sleeping around, divorce, adultery, plus domestic abuse, rape and pedophilia are all acceptable things to do. |
And then their LOL but not LOL defense is "oh, didn't you know? when I f*** someone else then get a divorce it's totally fine - that's still family values. but whatever YOU'RE doing you gdless heathen should be punishable by death. just follow my tweets to know what's acceptable and what warrants execution, simple as pie." |
You... don't know any actual Christians. They think divorce is regrettable but sometimes necessary, just like you do. They don't think ANY of that other stuff is acceptable. |
They don’t? Maybe they don’t like it in theory, but never enough to stop giving money and support to their churches when their leaders do it. I wish these same “Christians” would recognize that abortion is regrettable, but sometimes necessary, too. After all, Jesus had nothing to say on abortion, but he was quite clear where he stood on marriage. |
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If people think all that is acceptable they are not Christian. I don't know if she ever was railing against divorce. Do you have a proof of that? |