Pomona is not “half decent”. It is far above UCLA, Rice, Wash U., Emory, etc and harder to get admitted into than Williams is. Colgate and Pomona are nothing alike. You don’t seem to know much about how these schools compare so your opinion means little. |
Well locally they’re going against kids from GDS, Maret, Sidwell and several others in Maryland and Virginia. Not to mention all of the public school kids locally and then nationally hundreds and hundreds. Sports are wonderful and I love the sports aspect of STA. I think what parents are calling for is more of a balance with the timing. Kids getting home at 7:00-7:30 5 times a week is too late. By the time they shower and have dinner they’re not starting their homework and studying until 8 o’clock at night and then up past midnight if they’re in the AP classes because they require a lot of studying and some of them have daily tests and quizzes. |
| Right. Just like all those other kids at the schools you named. |
| OP you must know the answer. The Ivys and similar colleges look down on white affluent males from a prep school. It is that simple. If you haven’t had to deal with a major life crisis before 18, you are not getting in. |
Keep telling yourself that. |
Some STA student’s fitting your description did get accepted to Ivies and other top colleges. |
| ^^^Then they are legacies, athletic recruits, or have some other hook. |
Admits rates don't mean anything. Pomona is a fine school but the schools mentioned are certainly comparable. To suggest otherwise is silly. |
No one said none get in. But it is small. Same with other similar schools in the area. And I am not even saying this is the wrong approach by the schools. To remedy past injustices. But it is a FACT esp given the test optional rule. There is not a good way for these students to separate themselves anymore. Although I see that MIT is going the other waY now. |
That is true of almost, if not literally everyone, at an Ivy. If that wasn't your kid, he wasn't getting in from anywhere anyway. There aren't that many spots in the schools, and there are much better options for undergrad out there anyway. |
Not PP but the original post put Pomona and Colgate as "half decent" - I assumed the pp's argument was that Pomona should be in the original list (Michigan, UCLA, Williams, Rice, Penn, Georgetown, Stanford, Hopkins, Wash U, Emory, Bowdoin, Wash and Lee and on and on) and not relegated to a "half decent" list along with Colgate. Pomona is certainly a tier (or two) above Colgate. |
Pomona is basically Harvard West. |
you realize that we can all scroll up the page and see "The Ivys and similar colleges look down on white affluent males from a prep school. It is that simple. If you haven’t had to deal with a major life crisis before 18, you are not getting in." the fact that it's a small number is entirely consistent for schools with a sub 5% acceptance rate. Unless you think white affluent prep school boys should be admitted at a better rate. |
tell me you've never been on the campus of a selective college without telling me you've never been on the campus of a selective college. |
| What is the point of this post? You say you are a STA parent, so am I, but other than outing semi-private information from seniors' instagram posts, what overall is your concern. Aren't Sidwell and GDS bigger school so therefore they may have "better" chances of getting into certain schools by sheer number? Are you nervous that your son won't get into a "good" school because you think he is on par with some of these seniors? Schools and colleges go in trends so do you even know that people applied to the many schools that you listed? If anything, take this information and learn from it. Let's say you want your child to go to Michigan - why don't you ask the CCO if any kids applied to Michigan and got in but made other choices? What you are doing is seriously unkind but also unclear what your motives are. |