I want to be with my girl friends way more than I want to be with my husband

[Anonymous]

I’m a married woman.

In the last year I’ve made friends with this wonderful friend (woman) and I find myself so attracted to her. To her energy and vibe and beauty…

I can’t say I want to have sex with her at all but that I’m just so attracted to her energy.
I want to be with her all the time… way more than I want to be with my husband. she’s fun, we can talk for hours, and she makes me laugh harder than anyone I’ve known.

Is this just life as a married woman with girl friends???

[Anonymous]

I'm sure your husband appreciates you exhausting all your talking with someone else.

[Anonymous]

This sounds nice! Your friend sounds like a high energy, charismatic person.

[Anonymous]

Yes I think so but do try to also relate well with your husband and give him love for who he is otherwise your marriage will be rocky. You can have both of these relationships.

[Anonymous]

How long have you been married? Sometimes a new car, toy, house whatever creates positive energy. But, don’t leave your husband in the rear view mirror.

[Anonymous]

Single women keep women single.

[Anonymous]

I do feel like there’s some sexual tension there… But maybe I’m imagining things.

I would say I’m attracted to her, and she gives me a lot of compliments.

[Anonymous]

Grow up.

[Anonymous]

It’s a friendship. I don’t know how we got to the point where we have to think about every relationship in a sexual way.

[Anonymous]

Imagine if a man posted here "I prefer to be with my guy friends than my wife." He would get destroyed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Imagine if a man posted here "I prefer to be with my guy friends than my wife." He would get destroyed.

He also wouldn’t post it as an issue. Truthfully I think we all know many guys who prefer their guy friends.

[Anonymous]

My DW has a woman friend who she jumps at whenever she has the opportunity. Not full romantic like but to give you an idea we were on a date and her friend called and she jumped out of the table, went outside and laughed, and just had this glow about her for 45 minutes in the middle of our date. Clear she likes being with this woman. So its normal and I think her friend had better luck at romance with DW than me that night.

[Anonymous]

Are you gay?

[Anonymous]

You use words that are typically used when people are in love with someone.

Just saying, OP. And no, I have never felt this. Not that I don't need time with my friends! But I do not describe them that way.

I've been on DCUM for 15 years, I have lots of friends in real life. NO ONE has ever described a "friend" in quite that way.

Draw your own conclusions.

[Anonymous]

No it’s not. I love my female friends but I’ve never been attracted to any of them. I am however, attracted to my husband and enjoy sex with him.

Are you sure you’re not gay or bi? It sounds like it. Your poor husband.