How attracted are you to your partner?
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Anonymous
| Scale of 1 to 10. And how old are you both? Know this must vary for people. |
Anonymous
| 0 |
Anonymous
| A ten. He’s 42. I’m 39. |
Anonymous
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10
54 and 50 He is model material and not sure why he’s with me but sure am glad he is! |
Anonymous
What makes it so high? |
Anonymous
| Visually 10 but after 5 minutes of talking it goes to around 2 |
Anonymous
| Was a 9, but he cheated so now it's a solid 0. He disgusts me |
Anonymous
| When it’s just us and we’re making out a 10. I feel bad about this but my attraction goes down in social situations because he’s so quiet and awkward. He’s 46 and I’m 41, together 1 year. |
Anonymous
He has really warm eyes, when he smiles it lights up a room, he has great hair, he looks amazing in a T-shirt (posture +muscles), he’s confident without being cocky, he’s kind (to me sure, but also other people), like a thousand other things. |
Anonymous
| We are in our 60s so the physical side of it isn’t what it use to be though our love life is still very active. But he’s still a 10 for many reasons. We’ve been together 40 years and I know we can’t live forever. |
Anonymous
| A 5 on a good day, down from a 7 due to weight gain but also he has become more withdrawn generally. He is an amazing partner in life and the best dad to our kids, so I try to keep things in perspective. |
Anonymous
| Mostly 5-6, sometimes 8-9. He is a good person and an involved dad. He’s not super affectionate towards me, which kills the attraction. |
Anonymous
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0
He is a jerk |
Anonymous
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I guess about a 5. I feel pretty neutral about his looks. I don’t know that it was ever a lot higher than that.
I am 43. He is 46. |
Anonymous
So you married a 5 in looks? What about him is a 10 for you? |