Jen Hatmaker
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Anonymous
| Remember Jen used to post about her ex in an over the top fawning way. Look at us! Aren’t we the cutest?! And a lot of lonely women with single and marriage less felt less than and bad. But now we all know that it was all fake and her marriage was a disaster. So remember this when you see Jen flexing her magical friendships. All that glitters in not gold. |
Anonymous
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For me, the issue is not that she’s bragging about having close friendships. Honestly, I don’t believe a word she says anymore.
It’s that her post was 1) engagement farming (“Comment for the blog!” when the blog is on her website); and 2) shilling her Me course (the blog post directs you to buy it). She’s basically saying “I have these great friendships AND YOU CAN TOO, if you pay me $60 for a worksheet!”. It’s gross. She’s gross. |
Anonymous
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Yes this is the problem. Jen is so lacking in morals. Lie in bed with dogs and get fleas. Are these the friends anyone would really want? The type who worship and follow around a woman with such few scruples?
I get people are lonely. That’s why the twin flames predators could convince people to change their actual gender! Almost no one in real life has friends like Friends, HIMYM, New Girl, Happy Endings etc because it’s not realistic! Social media is a LIE! TV and movies are FAKE. It’s okay to be lonely but please don’t attack your own self worth because of it. |
Anonymous
| Actually, I do have friends like Friends and HIMYM and the like, but what we don't do? Cuddle together in matching pajamas on each other's beds. I don't resent Jen having close friends. But I do feel like maybe her closest friendships are a little bit immature. You crash on each other's beds in high school and college. Then you grow up- hopefully have a healthy marriage where your bedroom is for you and your spouse- and your friendship evolves accordingly. You're still close. You still have a history. But you don't pack six people into one cabin on a cruise ship anymore, because you've grown up and likely now have grownup money and adult boundaries. I think if we knew the full truth behind this picture that Jen posted, it's actually a lot closer to "Tyler bailed on me again- please come over and turn this into a girl's slumber party night" or "We're sorry for constantly complaining about your teeth, Megan. We promise to grow up and love you for you." Or something similar. I just don't see maturity when I look at this pic. Or normal boundaries for 50yr-old women. |
Anonymous
| Friends and how I met your mother are some of the more immature groups of people on tv. |
Anonymous
Wonder if she’ll go with TT or something similar… |
Anonymous
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I haven't looked, but is her blog off-limits to the public a la Substack? I didn't understand the comment plea for a blog post but I guess the PP is right, and it is just to drive engagement.
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Anonymous
Yes, because they're in their freaking twenties. But that whole comment stands. Maybe the poster should've used Golden Girls or something similar. |
Anonymous
No substack. Every blog is posted in full on her website. She doesn’t say “link in bio”, because then she wouldn’t have 500 comments - 250 comments asking for the blog (Who are these people?); and 250 from Jen’s robot saying, “Coming your way!”. |
Anonymous
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Sarah Bessey has a subscription blog but will subsidize readers who can't afford it.
These people are so brave. /s |
Anonymous
| There are few people who need a next chapter more than Big Sis. In so many ways. |
Anonymous
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Ick! In the friendship post, the way she says "I WANT YOU TO KNOW" that conflict doesn’t mean your relationship has gone off the rails or that it is unfixable.
Oh, Jen---all-knowing guru of ALL things friendships! Thank you for assuring us with all your knowledge! It's just so funny to me that she wrote "I WANT YOU TO KNOW".....as if everyone doesn't already know that relationships can be mended. We need Jane Capstitcher's version of this! |
Anonymous
| Is Jen 50 yet? Would be interesting to see what her friends really think of Tyler. They are prolly human and appreciate her being brought down a few notches. Seems like Megz has the cutest and richest hubby. That’s prolly why they let her in the group. |
Anonymous
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Why can’t us posters be friends? 😅😭
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Anonymous
Take her M E course for 60 dollars, obvi |