March rollercoaster

Anonymous
Bracing and also just so ready for this month to be done. Waiting on the final four decisions to roll in. All on the more reach side of my kid's list so I know there will likely be some rough days ahead but just really hoping one or two of them lead to celebrating or at least closer to a final decision. Second kid doing college search and now remembering how much I hated this stage last time, too!!!!

Anyone else in a similar head/heart space right now?
Anonymous
Yep - this month is either going to drag on (next two weeks in particular) or just fly by. There will be good days and some rough ones but in a month it will be done.
Anonymous
Totally with you but dc does have a good option. My worry is then he would want to visit 2 again and April is so packed. I guess a good problem to have but dragging on.
Anonymous
Yes, also dreading the frantic April visits! And I have a hunch that my daughter will take awhile to make her final decision so April could be a long tortuous month, too. Ugh.
Anonymous
Yes to all of these.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Bracing and also just so ready for this month to be done. Waiting on the final four decisions to roll in. All on the more reach side of my kid's list so I know there will likely be some rough days ahead but just really hoping one or two of them lead to celebrating or at least closer to a final decision. Second kid doing college search and now remembering how much I hated this stage last time, too!!!!

Anyone else in a similar head/heart space right now?


Not this year, thankfully, but in your shoes 2 years ago. Hang in there. Hoping for hood things!
Anonymous
I both like and dislike the current notifications via portals. Nice to have a way to check but I also kind of miss the old days when decisions would arrive by mail without all the build up of emails or Instagram announcements telling you to mark your calendar or weird forums trying to predict the decision reveal date. Is it weird to miss the old fashioned way of doing this? Then again I hate all of the weird gender reveal parties and social media posts...maybe some school will go retro and deliver early announcements via telegram LOL
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I both like and dislike the current notifications via portals. Nice to have a way to check but I also kind of miss the old days when decisions would arrive by mail without all the build up of emails or Instagram announcements telling you to mark your calendar or weird forums trying to predict the decision reveal date. Is it weird to miss the old fashioned way of doing this? Then again I hate all of the weird gender reveal parties and social media posts...maybe some school will go retro and deliver early announcements via telegram LOL


Love it.
Anonymous
Any tips for helping kids cope with potential slew of rejections all within a few days of each other? My fear is that all of the remaining schools in my kid's list will be rejections and I hate that for them.
Anonymous
Kid got in weeks ago at Hopkins! Can NOT wait to get there. So excited.
Anonymous
Yes it is going to be difficult month but doing my best to prepare DD so far has been unpredictable for top school she worked hard with good stat and EC but didn't get in her top choice EA while friends got accepted.
Anonymous
I feel you! My kid is a transfer applicant. Those decisions drag out into June.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Any tips for helping kids cope with potential slew of rejections all within a few days of each other? My fear is that all of the remaining schools in my kid's list will be rejections and I hate that for them.


Stash of favorite ice creams -- one for each decision day? Celebrate or commiserate.

For mine on ED day, it was our pizza night, so plan was go out to nice brick oven place to celebrate if accepted, homemade (what we usually do) if deferred, order out Ledos if denied.
Anonymous
Also most of them don't have exact date, like mid March or Early April. Do they announce the exact date?
Anonymous
Are you all waiting on RD or deferrals?
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