Told Wife I Want Divorcd

[Anonymous]

I told my W I wanted a divorce. This was in June. I gave her a proposed separation and property settlement agreement. She had not read it. She says she deserves everything and that the only paper she will sign will give her everything.

She has been a liar and a cheater our whole marriage, I am fed up, and finally want out.

She is bad-mouthing me to our grown children, who take her side. She also bad mouths me to mutual friends.

I was hoping for an amicable divorce, but it looks like she will make this difficult,

[Anonymous]

Cool story bro. Serve her ass and move on.

[Anonymous]

Okay.

[Anonymous]

What have you been doing since June?

[Anonymous]

Don't worry, she won't get everything, because it's all going to go to the lawyers and the divorce industry.

Good luck. 👍

[Anonymous]

lawyer

[Anonymous]

This is what you’re spending your energy thinking about on thanksgiving?

[Anonymous]

OK? So, anyway…

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is what you’re spending your energy thinking about on thanksgiving?

I'm guessing of all the days of the year, this is the day the people contemplating divorce is at its highest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is what you’re spending your energy thinking about on thanksgiving?

I'm guessing of all the days of the year, this is the day the people contemplating divorce is at its highest.

The time when people file the most is the first week of January. New years resolutions, plus Christmas disasters being the last straw.
Love,
A matrimonial lawyer

[Anonymous]

She cheated the entire marriage? Gross nasty woman. Kids will see through her soon enough.

[Anonymous]

1. Tell your kids (and anyone else how matters) the facts.

2. File anyway. She doesn't need to agree. You will each get 50/50. End of story.

[Anonymous]

Mmm hmmm.

Divorce gets very adversarial. Water is wet.

[Anonymous]

DH here.

She won’t even read the proposed separation agreement you gave her?

She cheated on you??

You see the issue here, right? She does not have any respect for: YOU. Now listen up.

- STOP mentioning divorce. Just stop entirely.

- get a lawyer and DO NOT TELL HER!!! Not one word.

- play nice. Be kind. Be generous. Mention the good times. Raise the possibility of reconciliation. But,

- do EVERYTHING your lawyer says. Everything. To the letter. And

- record everything. Use your IPhone. Record what she says. Install hidden cameras (with audio in VA, but not MD). Write things down she does, in detail, with dates. Again, tell her nothing, and be nice!!

- quietly move money; check with your lawyer about this. Prepare.

- when the time comes, DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE. Serve her legally, and moved her belongings out.

- serve her with a restraining order behind her back; it will apply to both a person and a location; have the police forcibly removed her from your home; record it. It may help your case when she resists.

- where she goes next? It is NOT your problem.

Listen here OP: this woman treated you like trash throughout your entire marriage; she does not deserve your respect. She is nothing; less than nothing: treat her as such. With your lawyer’s help, take everything you can from her, then forget she was ever born. Turn your back and move on.

Grow up and see divorce for what it really is in your situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I told my W I wanted a divorce. This was in June. I gave her a proposed separation and property settlement agreement. She had not read it. She says she deserves everything and that the only paper she will sign will give her everything.

She has been a liar and a cheater our whole marriage, I am fed up, and finally want out.

She is bad-mouthing me to our grown children, who take her side. She also bad mouths me to mutual friends.

I was hoping for an amicable divorce, but it looks like she will make this difficult,

I know they are adults, but:



You should meet your kids,

Just to tell them their mom sucks!