How does Catholic school make kids so outgoing and gregarious?
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Anonymous
| I have noticed this in both kids who are current students and adult peers who are Catholic school lifers. |
Anonymous
| I know in my own kid's school there is a lot of emphasis on public speaking and leadership. |
Anonymous
| Oh hell no not at PVI. |
Anonymous
| Lots of required public speaking and having conversations with adults, plus strict standards for manners. |
Anonymous
| You’re generalizing. |
Anonymous
| It is unique to your school...don't see anything special at SJC. |
Anonymous
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We are at a Catholic k-8 and that is a sweeping generalization. I have 3 and they are at different levels of outgoing and gregariousness.
FWIW, my kids are all able to present and speak well in class because of the required public speaking built in but that has no bearing on how outgoing or gregarious they are outside of the classroom. |
Anonymous
| I think a focus on community and school events fosters a sense of belonging which in turn leads to friendships and confidence in social situations. |
Anonymous
| They’re allowed to expel the kids who crush your spirit. |
Anonymous
| Plus 1. All three of my kids thankfully are outgoing. It is a community thing. They speak to parents and joke around with ease. Friendships are a priority. |
Anonymous
| I think it's cultural. A lot of expressive gregarious cultures are commonly Catholic. Hispanics, Italians, Irish, Filipino, etc. These are typically not quiet people. |
Anonymous
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I do think you're overgeneralizing. But also a.) they come from a tight-knit community (not always a positive; it hurts if you're not "in," but if you are "in," it breeds confidence. B.) More public speaking, serving at Mass, etc. C.) Smaller schools often mean more opportunities for leadership. D.) Often bigger families ... kids learn to speak up to get what they need.
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Anonymous
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At our FCPS high school, many students from catholic school entered public school in 9th. They seemed confident, comfortable in their own skin, worked hard. Imo, the advantage to their earlier schooling: they had "missed the memo" on whether they were Gifted -- or not.
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Anonymous
| Booze hounds |
Anonymous
| Big families. And single gender education. |