I’m sad, I lost another friend

[Anonymous]

Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.

[Anonymous]

Maybe she will contact in the future but if I’ve learned anything from the past, once they go, usually they go.

[Anonymous]

What do you mean by "leveled up"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What do you mean by "leveled up"?

“Bigger home, vacays, cars, nicer community, etc” you know all that stuff

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.

This is not her fault...

[Anonymous]

The thread title suggested that this would be about a death. Happy to read that it was only about the death of a friendship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:she was a college friend.

How many mutual friends do you still have?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.

Happens all the time. I choose my own growth over their friendship every time. It hurts but it is what it is. Don't worry about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you mean by "leveled up"?

“Bigger home, vacays, cars, nicer community, etc” you know all that stuff

Please tell me this is not OP…

[Anonymous]

If you are losing friends every time you "level up", it's because you are obnoxious about it. I have not lost a single friend despite "leveling up" a couple times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.

Happens all the time. I choose my own growth over their friendship every time. It hurts but it is what it is. Don't worry about it.

Sounds like you have some more growing to do, friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Or so it seems. I leveled up and I guess the dynamic changed and she no longer wants to engage. Sad, she was a college friend.

Happens all the time. I choose my own growth over their friendship every time. It hurts but it is what it is. Don't worry about it.

Sounds like you have some more growing to do, friend.

Lmao. Ok crab, stay in your bucket.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you are losing friends every time you "level up", it's because you are obnoxious about it. I have not lost a single friend despite "leveling up" a couple times.

Well I guess my friends can’t be happy for me when I level up and tell them. I don’t think I’m obnoxious, just telling them what’s going on in my life. I guess you can’t say the good parts, I mean most of this shit is earned through blood sweat and tears. They might see the leveling up but it’s not without hard work. And it’s not just me bragging, I’m also interested in their lives as well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are losing friends every time you "level up", it's because you are obnoxious about it. I have not lost a single friend despite "leveling up" a couple times.

Well I guess my friends can’t be happy for me when I level up and tell them. I don’t think I’m obnoxious, just telling them what’s going on in my life. I guess you can’t say the good parts, I mean most of this shit is earned through blood sweat and tears. They might see the leveling up but it’s not without hard work. And it’s not just me bragging, I’m also interested in their lives as well.

I think you clearly are obnoxious. Why do you have to tell your friends? Under what circumstances are you forced to tell?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you are losing friends every time you "level up", it's because you are obnoxious about it. I have not lost a single friend despite "leveling up" a couple times.

Well I guess my friends can’t be happy for me when I level up and tell them. I don’t think I’m obnoxious, just telling them what’s going on in my life. I guess you can’t say the good parts, I mean most of this shit is earned through blood sweat and tears. They might see the leveling up but it’s not without hard work. And it’s not just me bragging, I’m also interested in their lives as well.

I don't hide my life either. I guarantee it is something with your delivery or how you talk about it.