I’m sad, I lost another friend

[Anonymous]

I'm sure the friend is better off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have also recently lost my relationship with my best friend and it really hurts. I haven't leveled up.

We've known each other for years, I wish I knew what I did.

Yeah, that part too. The contact just stops and there is never an explanation. Again after so many years too!

Why don’t you call her up or go to her home and ask what happened. Post something on FB?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you mean by "leveled up"?

“[/b]Bigger home, vacays, cars, nicer community, [b]etc” you know all that stuff

Well now we know why. I might be because of these actual things but more likely is about how she learned of these things.

In McLean, this happens often when kids’ friends level up to a McMansion, but then suddenly they are too good for your family, and your kid gets ghosted.

[Anonymous]

I have some friends who are levelling up and I’ve started to distance because it’s stressful because all they do is complain about stuff related to house renovations, travel complications, childcare coverage. Or they complain that their kids are failing school due to teachers sucking.

When I bring up a book I read or podcast, they quickly talk about how they are too busy to read. Or when I talk about the steps I’ve taken to manage our issues they make excuses about how they are so busy and important.

They just want to complain all the time about how the money they are throwing at things is not working or end up costing them more.

They definitely work hard and I think the mentality that nothing is good enough is the their financial success. I wish them well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I thought you friend died.
Congrats on "leveling up!"

and being obnoxious & friendless?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have some friends who are levelling up and I’ve started to distance because it’s stressful because all they do is complain about stuff related to house renovations, travel complications, childcare coverage. Or they complain that their kids are failing school due to teachers sucking.

When I bring up a book I read or podcast, they quickly talk about how they are too busy to read. Or when I talk about the steps I’ve taken to manage our issues they make excuses about how they are so busy and important.

They just want to complain all the time about how the money they are throwing at things is not working or end up costing them more.

They definitely work hard and I think the mentality that nothing is good enough is the their financial success. I wish them well.

They are in the process of leveling up, which describes most people. Lack of complaints is one way to know you've leveled up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you mean by "leveled up"?

“Bigger home, vacays, cars, nicer community, etc” you know all that stuff

You changed, not her. Just the fact that you say leveled up means it’s you not her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What do you mean by "leveled up"?

“Bigger home, vacays, cars, nicer community, etc” you know all that stuff

You changed, not her. Just the fact that you say leveled up means it’s you not her.

+1. She probably was finally done with your materialistic, status obsessed, obnoxious ways. You sound dull as hell, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I thought you friend died.
Congrats on "leveling up!"

and being obnoxious & friendless?

Well, sounds like OP has her/his priorities