| is a 4 year age gap okay? in the 20s so its legal, but is it strange for a guy to be 25 and the woman to be 29? |
| Why is that weird? They're both adults. |
She has a 10 year old son, and they are expecting a kid. They been together since for over a year, and they will be having a kid in November. |
Not at all. |
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Mu husband is 9 years younger than me.
This is a weird question. |
| talk about burying the lead. is a 25 yo ready to be a stepfather to a 10 yo? |
OP said they’re expecting a kid together as well, so presumably yes. |
Why are you so concerned with their situation? MYOB. |
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The age gap is not the problem, the bad judgement is.
29 year old has a 10 year old? 25 year old sleeping with 29 year old with a 10 year old with no protection? I don't believe it's a relationship that will last, but you never know, stranger things have happened |
You should have led with this OP. She had a baby at 19? They are expecting a second child out of wedlock? A 25 year old with a 10 year old and an infant? There is no way this end well. |
Relationships like that are very common outside of areas like this & among LMC folks. And FYI, nobody cares about “wedlock” in 2023. |
The horror! Done clutching your pearls yet, pp? |
Say what you want. If that was my kid I’d be incredibly disappointed. You can live your life divorced, estranged, broken families, step kids, second marriages, you do you if your lack of values makes you happy, carry on. But I hope my kid never meets dates or marries one of yours. |
It’s bury the lede not bury the lead. |
Say what you want. If you were my parent I’d be incredibly disappointed. You can live your life ignorant, bigoted, stupid, snobbish, judgmental and uncaring, you do you if your lack of values makes you happy, carry on. But I hope my kid never dates or married one of yours. |