How far in advance do you plan birthday parties?

Anonymous
I like to plan 6 months in advance meaning theme, ideas, pintersr boards, etc…Husband thinks im nuts! But i think it’s necessary with 4 kids. His head seems to always be spinning but Im the one moving the parts. Basically he thinks I’m always on birthday mode. I just need him to cut the check and shut up!

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I like to plan 6 months in advance meaning theme, ideas, pintersr boards, etc…Husband thinks im nuts! But i think it’s necessary with 4 kids. His head seems to always be spinning but Im the one moving the parts. Basically he thinks I’m always on birthday mode. I just need him to cut the check and shut up!



With 4 kids, depending on their spread for birthdays (our is only 6 weeks) I could see myself planning virtually year round. Just to make sure I didn't miss anything. Listening to what they like, etc. I don't think it's a crime to want your kids to looks back on their birthdays as special (not necessarily expensive) because someone took the time to really plan for them as an individual.
Anonymous
3 months
Anonymous
If you have the bandwidth for pinterest board and themed parties with four kids, then hats off to you! You do you and have fun with it!
Anonymous
I cannot imagine having 4 kids. More than kids is irresponsible, unless your second pregnancy resulted in twins.
Anonymous
A month at most. You should get a job.
Anonymous
Invites go out a month before - phone, paper, email. Basically, after solidifying that my core group of guests are available and have agreed to attend on that date.
Anonymous
I used to do that. Now I can plan it in 2 weeks flat!
Anonymous
We plan beginning four months ahead because you sometimes have to reserve the date three months ahead. No Pinterest board though.
Anonymous
Nine to six months usually. At the latest, three months ahead.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I cannot imagine having 4 kids. More than kids is irresponsible, unless your second pregnancy resulted in twins.


It did. I planned for 3
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A month at most. You should get a job.


Why work of you dont have to?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Nine to six months usually. At the latest, three months ahead.


+1
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I used to do that. Now I can plan it in 2 weeks flat!


I assume all parties are at home then. No venue parties I assume but that is still cutting it close.
Anonymous
At this point I book a venue 2-3 months out, get a cake the day before and that’s it.
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