Fall sports tryouts & travel

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[Post New]04/25/2023 17:51
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Anonymous
Just realized we're going to be gone when fall sports tryouts are happening (7/31 LCPS)

Anyone BTDT?
[Post New]04/25/2023 19:09
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Anonymous
Oooh. I don't think that's good OP. Is it a cut sport? The try out dates are the same every year (within a day or two) and pretty well known.
[Post New]04/25/2023 19:32
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Anonymous
At my kid's APS high school, you can only be manager (but can practice with the team) if you miss tryouts.
[Post New]04/26/2023 09:04
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Just realized we're going to be gone when fall sports tryouts are happening (7/31 LCPS)

Anyone BTDT?


You/your kid will have to choose. The trip, or the team.
[Post New]04/26/2023 09:06
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Just realized we're going to be gone when fall sports tryouts are happening (7/31 LCPS)

Anyone BTDT?


You/your kid will have to choose. The trip, or the team.


+1

It's no longer kids rec sports and the expectations at the high school level are more rigorous. Having said that, it may depend on the sport and the coach.
[Post New]04/26/2023 09:10
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Anonymous
Are you missing the whole week of tryouts or just a day? If just a day, your child could possibly email the coach. Depending on the sport, missing tryouts likely means your child will not be able to play this year.
[Post New]04/26/2023 09:22
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Anonymous
Weird equity issue for LCPS to auto-cut kids not available during the summer. It isn’t the school year.

What if a kid has a summer job. Have food to eat or tryout for a team? Harsh reality for some. (Understand that is not OP’s issue).

Also, dates may be “well known” but do not seem to be posted at present. Bad system to punish kids who aren’t “in the know.”
[Post New]04/26/2023 09:40
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Weird equity issue for LCPS to auto-cut kids not available during the summer. It isn’t the school year.

What if a kid has a summer job. Have food to eat or tryout for a team? Harsh reality for some. (Understand that is not OP’s issue).

Also, dates may be “well known” but do not seem to be posted at present. Bad system to punish kids who aren’t “in the know.”


+1 for a million reasons. Your Grandpa died? Sorry kid, its the funeral or a chance to play sports at a mediocre HS.


OP here. That's what I was thinking...it's our first year so we're still learning the ropes.
[Post New]04/26/2023 09:50
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:

Also, dates may be “well known” but do not seem to be posted at present. Bad system to punish kids who aren’t “in the know.”


Welcome to high school sports
[Post New]04/26/2023 12:37
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Weird equity issue for LCPS to auto-cut kids not available during the summer. It isn’t the school year.

What if a kid has a summer job. Have food to eat or tryout for a team? Harsh reality for some. (Understand that is not OP’s issue).

Also, dates may be “well known” but do not seem to be posted at present. Bad system to punish kids who aren’t “in the know.”


+1 for a million reasons. Your Grandpa died? Sorry kid, its the funeral or a chance to play sports at a mediocre HS.


My guess is that attending a funeral would be treated differently from taking a family vacation. In any event, if the sport in question has a freshman team, there is a decent chance you can talk to the coach and work things out. But you will want to take those dates into account for your family trip next summer.
[Post New]04/27/2023 08:46
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Weird equity issue for LCPS to auto-cut kids not available during the summer. It isn’t the school year.

What if a kid has a summer job. Have food to eat or tryout for a team? Harsh reality for some. (Understand that is not OP’s issue).

Also, dates may be “well known” but do not seem to be posted at present. Bad system to punish kids who aren’t “in the know.”

Our friends daughter had to go to her grandmothers funeral and miss two days of tryouts, and was not “excused“. They required all kids to attend all days of tryouts to make the team. I would say the only potential exception would be if you’re kid is a well known all-star, already the stand out and they need them on the team.
[Post New]04/27/2023 08:48
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Weird equity issue for LCPS to auto-cut kids not available during the summer. It isn’t the school year.

What if a kid has a summer job. Have food to eat or tryout for a team? Harsh reality for some. (Understand that is not OP’s issue).

Also, dates may be “well known” but do not seem to be posted at present. Bad system to punish kids who aren’t “in the know.”

Our friends daughter had to go to her grandmothers funeral and miss two days of tryouts, and was not “excused“. They required all kids to attend all days of tryouts to make the team. I would say the only potential exception would be if you’re kid is a well known all-star, already the stand out and they need them on the team.


at a certain point, a parent has to be willing to look through district policies on what counts as excused and be willing to challenge the coach. If that’s the coach’s policy, take it to the principal and regional superintendent
[Post New]04/27/2023 10:13
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Anonymous
I had a long post typed out but changed my mind because I worried it gave too many specific details.

But in general, if you haven't experienced high school sports before, be prepared to basically give up your life during the sports season. Maybe that just depends on the school/sport--but that was our experience.

You're lucky you are aware this far out about try out dates. In our experience, many mandatory things were not announced until last minute (like literally hours before) and everyone is expected to just drop everything at a moments notice to be at the coach's beckon call.

[Post New]04/27/2023 12:51
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Weird equity issue for LCPS to auto-cut kids not available during the summer. It isn’t the school year.

What if a kid has a summer job. Have food to eat or tryout for a team? Harsh reality for some. (Understand that is not OP’s issue).

Also, dates may be “well known” but do not seem to be posted at present. Bad system to punish kids who aren’t “in the know.”

Our friends daughter had to go to her grandmothers funeral and miss two days of tryouts, and was not “excused“. They required all kids to attend all days of tryouts to make the team. I would say the only potential exception would be if you’re kid is a well known all-star, already the stand out and they need them on the team.


at a certain point, a parent has to be willing to look through district policies on what counts as excused and be willing to challenge the coach. If that’s the coach’s policy, take it to the principal and regional superintendent


And ensure your kid never plays a minute.
[Post New]04/27/2023 12:55
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Anonymous
How would parents of a rising 9th grader know that tryouts were in July? Most people plan summer trips far in advance.
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