Volleyball club- recap and thoughts

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FPYCparent wrote:I'm coming off of one season at Paramount, where my kid was on one of the higher-performing teams ... playing for one of the more "excitable" coaches at the club. This was my kid's second year of club volleyball, but we had heard a wide range of things about this coach and the club. We were somewhat prepared.

I don't know if this happens with every team at high-level club, but the coach definitely had some favorite players on that team. As a result, there were some entire weekends where a handful of players did not play at all. Flying from DC to Florida, Missouri, Atlanta, etc. and staying in hotels makes for quite the family expense only to have your kid not even get on the court during a single match. While my kid wasn't a starter, she did get on the court in nearly every set the team played last season.

I will add that having a player at Paramount gave us access to better/"closer-in" hotels during some tournament weekends than what we had experienced the year prior at another club. Having only to walk two blocks to the tournament venue vs. driving 20+ minutes and having to park at a convention center can make a world of difference. Forget something in the hotel room? No problem! I'll grab it and be back in 10 minutes! You won't do that if it requires driving and there isn't anything convenient nearby ... and open on a three-day holiday weekend. (SpotHero is still a go-to resource for me when I need it!)

As I hinted, this particular coach can have an outburst at any time, but **I** never heard any cursing or constant berating of a particular player during practices or matches. If anything, the bench players or a ref might get an earful during match ... and yes, there are some refs that won't play that game. With the coach having some favorite players, there would never be anything negative directed at any of them. When a set/match got way out-of-hand (thankfully, didn't happen repeatedly), seeing the coach effectively give up and just sit on the bench isn't the kind of energy or motivation the players need at that moment. If the team isn't performing as expected during a practice, I'm sure there will be a few extra sprints thrown in.

Heading into this upcoming season, I've heard from other Paramount parents (involved with other teams). They've shared some of the things that their player's coaches have said to players during matches last season and prior. There were definitely some things that crossed the line for me. So, I'm not going to pretend that kind of thing doesn't happen at this club. I'm just thankful that I didn't observe it for myself ... and I hope that my player didn't have to directly endure anything like that.

The only observation that I can offer on the Metro/Paramount dynamic is that it seems many of the parents know each other, perhaps from years on opposing (or the same) sidelines. Things might get loud when the clubs face each other on the court, but as soon as the match is over, I'll see parents chatting it up like old friends. I've also heard a Metro coach or two get mouthy with a ref. Certainly doesn't happen at every Metro match I've seen, so it may only be one or two coaches that occasionally act out a little.


Beyond that, I can only offer a useless spreadsheet to help folks navigate tryouts over the next few weeks. Hopefully, it will help someone get a better "lay of the land" that is CHRVA.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1230731.page

Based on your description, your daughter was on the team that got an Open Bid, right? So clearly the coach's "favorites" appeared to be the right lineup choices if this team did accomplished something that only the top 36 teams in the country accomplish, no?


That’s one way to see it. The other way is to ask why a club volleyball coach at the best club in the region with the best players in the region can’t figure out how to develop the team so that the entire roster can be real contributors to a team’s success?

No one is arguing the fact that some players are better than others. Or that winning is important at the highest level of club VB (or any sport). But a successful outcome doesn’t mean the process or approach was right. When it comes to coaching youth sports, there a lot of situations where the “ends don’t justify the means.”

We don’t play for either of the clubs, but we did go to nationals this year and watch the open finals for several age groups. We were surprised when every player except one on both team’s rosters played.

It showed us that there is more than one way to be successful at the highest levels of club volleyball.


Do you know how hard it is to get an Open Bid in general, let alone for a CHRVA Region team?
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FPYCparent wrote:I'm coming off of one season at Paramount, where my kid was on one of the higher-performing teams ... playing for one of the more "excitable" coaches at the club. This was my kid's second year of club volleyball, but we had heard a wide range of things about this coach and the club. We were somewhat prepared.

I don't know if this happens with every team at high-level club, but the coach definitely had some favorite players on that team. As a result, there were some entire weekends where a handful of players did not play at all. Flying from DC to Florida, Missouri, Atlanta, etc. and staying in hotels makes for quite the family expense only to have your kid not even get on the court during a single match. While my kid wasn't a starter, she did get on the court in nearly every set the team played last season.

I will add that having a player at Paramount gave us access to better/"closer-in" hotels during some tournament weekends than what we had experienced the year prior at another club. Having only to walk two blocks to the tournament venue vs. driving 20+ minutes and having to park at a convention center can make a world of difference. Forget something in the hotel room? No problem! I'll grab it and be back in 10 minutes! You won't do that if it requires driving and there isn't anything convenient nearby ... and open on a three-day holiday weekend. (SpotHero is still a go-to resource for me when I need it!)

As I hinted, this particular coach can have an outburst at any time, but **I** never heard any cursing or constant berating of a particular player during practices or matches. If anything, the bench players or a ref might get an earful during match ... and yes, there are some refs that won't play that game. With the coach having some favorite players, there would never be anything negative directed at any of them. When a set/match got way out-of-hand (thankfully, didn't happen repeatedly), seeing the coach effectively give up and just sit on the bench isn't the kind of energy or motivation the players need at that moment. If the team isn't performing as expected during a practice, I'm sure there will be a few extra sprints thrown in.

Heading into this upcoming season, I've heard from other Paramount parents (involved with other teams). They've shared some of the things that their player's coaches have said to players during matches last season and prior. There were definitely some things that crossed the line for me. So, I'm not going to pretend that kind of thing doesn't happen at this club. I'm just thankful that I didn't observe it for myself ... and I hope that my player didn't have to directly endure anything like that.

The only observation that I can offer on the Metro/Paramount dynamic is that it seems many of the parents know each other, perhaps from years on opposing (or the same) sidelines. Things might get loud when the clubs face each other on the court, but as soon as the match is over, I'll see parents chatting it up like old friends. I've also heard a Metro coach or two get mouthy with a ref. Certainly doesn't happen at every Metro match I've seen, so it may only be one or two coaches that occasionally act out a little.


Beyond that, I can only offer a useless spreadsheet to help folks navigate tryouts over the next few weeks. Hopefully, it will help someone get a better "lay of the land" that is CHRVA.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1230731.page

Based on your description, your daughter was on the team that got an Open Bid, right? So clearly the coach's "favorites" appeared to be the right lineup choices if this team did accomplished something that only the top 36 teams in the country accomplish, no?


That’s one way to see it. The other way is to ask why a club volleyball coach at the best club in the region with the best players in the region can’t figure out how to develop the team so that the entire roster can be real contributors to a team’s success?

No one is arguing the fact that some players are better than others. Or that winning is important at the highest level of club VB (or any sport). But a successful outcome doesn’t mean the process or approach was right. When it comes to coaching youth sports, there a lot of situations where the “ends don’t justify the means.”

We don’t play for either of the clubs, but we did go to nationals this year and watch the open finals for several age groups. We were surprised when every player except one on both team’s rosters played.

It showed us that there is more than one way to be successful at the highest levels of club volleyball.


Do you know how hard it is to get an Open Bid in general, let alone for a CHRVA Region team?


Yes
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FPYCparent wrote:I'm coming off of one season at Paramount, where my kid was on one of the higher-performing teams ... playing for one of the more "excitable" coaches at the club. This was my kid's second year of club volleyball, but we had heard a wide range of things about this coach and the club. We were somewhat prepared.

I don't know if this happens with every team at high-level club, but the coach definitely had some favorite players on that team. As a result, there were some entire weekends where a handful of players did not play at all. Flying from DC to Florida, Missouri, Atlanta, etc. and staying in hotels makes for quite the family expense only to have your kid not even get on the court during a single match. While my kid wasn't a starter, she did get on the court in nearly every set the team played last season.

I will add that having a player at Paramount gave us access to better/"closer-in" hotels during some tournament weekends than what we had experienced the year prior at another club. Having only to walk two blocks to the tournament venue vs. driving 20+ minutes and having to park at a convention center can make a world of difference. Forget something in the hotel room? No problem! I'll grab it and be back in 10 minutes! You won't do that if it requires driving and there isn't anything convenient nearby ... and open on a three-day holiday weekend. (SpotHero is still a go-to resource for me when I need it!)

As I hinted, this particular coach can have an outburst at any time, but **I** never heard any cursing or constant berating of a particular player during practices or matches. If anything, the bench players or a ref might get an earful during match ... and yes, there are some refs that won't play that game. With the coach having some favorite players, there would never be anything negative directed at any of them. When a set/match got way out-of-hand (thankfully, didn't happen repeatedly), seeing the coach effectively give up and just sit on the bench isn't the kind of energy or motivation the players need at that moment. If the team isn't performing as expected during a practice, I'm sure there will be a few extra sprints thrown in.

Heading into this upcoming season, I've heard from other Paramount parents (involved with other teams). They've shared some of the things that their player's coaches have said to players during matches last season and prior. There were definitely some things that crossed the line for me. So, I'm not going to pretend that kind of thing doesn't happen at this club. I'm just thankful that I didn't observe it for myself ... and I hope that my player didn't have to directly endure anything like that.

The only observation that I can offer on the Metro/Paramount dynamic is that it seems many of the parents know each other, perhaps from years on opposing (or the same) sidelines. Things might get loud when the clubs face each other on the court, but as soon as the match is over, I'll see parents chatting it up like old friends. I've also heard a Metro coach or two get mouthy with a ref. Certainly doesn't happen at every Metro match I've seen, so it may only be one or two coaches that occasionally act out a little.


Beyond that, I can only offer a useless spreadsheet to help folks navigate tryouts over the next few weeks. Hopefully, it will help someone get a better "lay of the land" that is CHRVA.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/1230731.page

Based on your description, your daughter was on the team that got an Open Bid, right? So clearly the coach's "favorites" appeared to be the right lineup choices if this team did accomplished something that only the top 36 teams in the country accomplish, no?


That’s one way to see it. The other way is to ask why a club volleyball coach at the best club in the region with the best players in the region can’t figure out how to develop the team so that the entire roster can be real contributors to a team’s success?

No one is arguing the fact that some players are better than others. Or that winning is important at the highest level of club VB (or any sport). But a successful outcome doesn’t mean the process or approach was right. When it comes to coaching youth sports, there a lot of situations where the “ends don’t justify the means.”

We don’t play for either of the clubs, but we did go to nationals this year and watch the open finals for several age groups. We were surprised when every player except one on both team’s rosters played.

It showed us that there is more than one way to be successful at the highest levels of club volleyball.


Although I believe it takes certain players (aka ‘favorite’ or ‘better’ players) to win more matches and have better outcome, I totally agree with this post. Ends don’t always justify the means. I do wish these top clubs will spend more time on developing all players - it’s definitely not easy to achieve, but I sincerely hope there’s a way.

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In no way am I suggesting that players at Paramount (regardless of the team) are NOT deserving of the playing time they got during the season. I just wanted to inform anyone interested that some players travelled to qualifiers last season (multiple events, perhaps) and did not get on the court. So, players and families have to have realistic expectations given the expenses involved. This is a "business" decision for family ... and likely isn't unique to players considering any club that attracts players at the highest level.

Here's another story that may be worth sharing ... and one that I did NOT independently confirm. A Paramount player reached out to a college coach ahead of time to share her team's Triple Crown NIT court schedule. (The player knew that the college coach would also be at the event.) I believe (but again, I cannot confirm) that the Paramount coach was made aware that this college coach would be at the court for the opportunity to see the player in competition. The college coach showed up while Paramount was on the court, but the player was never put into the match.

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Someone also mentioned the Paramount team that got an Open bid to USAV last season. Without going back and checking results (it looks like AES has already flushed some things), I think that team got the Open bid at a qualifier later in the season (NEQ, maybe?). That team did not make it to the Gold bracket (well, not in the top 4) at that event. However, because five of the top eight or so finishers had already earned Open bids at previous qualifiers, the bids trickled down to the three teams remaining in the top eight that didn't already have an Open bid. Since those "newly-qualified" teams were all getting Open bids, I don't even think the Silver bracket matches were even played. The Gold matches were played. Someone please correct me if my facts are wrong. Nonetheless, that Paramount team had to be good enough to even get to that point. That team just didn't get the Open bid with a top 3 finish at a qualifier.
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FPYCparent wrote:In no way am I suggesting that players at Paramount (regardless of the team) are NOT deserving of the playing time they got during the season. I just wanted to inform anyone interested that some players travelled to qualifiers last season (multiple events, perhaps) and did not get on the court. So, players and families have to have realistic expectations given the expenses involved. This is a "business" decision for family ... and likely isn't unique to players considering any club that attracts players at the highest level.

Here's another story that may be worth sharing ... and one that I did NOT independently confirm. A Paramount player reached out to a college coach ahead of time to share her team's Triple Crown NIT court schedule. (The player knew that the college coach would also be at the event.) I believe (but again, I cannot confirm) that the Paramount coach was made aware that this college coach would be at the court for the opportunity to see the player in competition. The college coach showed up while Paramount was on the court, but the player was never put into the match.

...

Someone also mentioned the Paramount team that got an Open bid to USAV last season. Without going back and checking results (it looks like AES has already flushed some things), I think that team got the Open bid at a qualifier later in the season (NEQ, maybe?). That team did not make it to the Gold bracket (well, not in the top 4) at that event. However, because five of the top eight or so finishers had already earned Open bids at previous qualifiers, the bids trickled down to the three teams remaining in the top eight that didn't already have an Open bid. Since those "newly-qualified" teams were all getting Open bids, I don't even think the Silver bracket matches were even played. The Gold matches were played. Someone please correct me if my facts are wrong. Nonetheless, that Paramount team had to be good enough to even get to that point. That team just didn't get the Open bid with a top 3 finish at a qualifier.

I would not share stories that are not confirmed. What if it is just a made up story to drive people away from the club? Plus, I feel like you offered enough personal information on this forum for the club to identify your DD. I am not saying that they are crawling on dcum to figure out what people are saying about the club, but they might. If the coaches are so subjective about who they play and are so petty about who they don't play, your DD might suffer some consequences.
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Anonymous wrote:I feel like there a Mean Girls like lot brewing between big volleyball clubs in this area. When did it become so dramatic? My daughter did one of the lesser clubs and had a horrible experience. Tried a few more clinics and then got over it. I’m glad- what a toxic sport. I think the coaches are the ones that make it so.


If you want the Ultimate Mean Girls Volleyball Experience go to a Mojo pre-tryout clinic and then the tryout. Mean Girls and Mean Girl Coaches make for meanest girls at tournaments, right down to intentionally unsportsmanlike behaviors during matches and tournaments.


DP and please elaborate. My daughter went to a pre tryout and liked it. She’s registered for tryouts. Other than the price being much higher than any other club, what do you mean?


Not the PP, but we have seen the same cliquey mean girl crap with certain Mojo teams and coaches. I have personally seen unsportsmanlike behavior from some of their players and coaches. At one tournament, the Mojo girls were not taking their turn at scoring seriously - mocking the opposing teams (pointing and laughing at players making mistakes or errors, eating, checking phones) and worst of all missing score keeping points in the process. When the coach of one playing team, as well as parents, pointed out the several-point errors in their scoring, instead of apologizing and fixing it and taking it more seriously the Mojo girls continued to more dramatically eat/check phones, point, sneer and smirk at the parents and other coaches and continued their mocking and laughing about it. Even worse, at one point the Mojo coach joined in laughing with them and apparently thought it was funny that the playing teams coaches were upset by this.

It was very unprofessional. To the contrary, my DD’s team was taught by coaches to take line judging and score keeping very seriously- a job. They don’t eat, don’t use phones, certainly don’t giggle and mock the teams/players on the court. They act professionally and make sure things are accurate. If their coach saw them behaving any differently those girls would be sitting out the next match.

My daughter will not try out for Mojo bc of this. Some of the Mojo players also acted similarly off the court during HS season. Showboating to losing team, sneering, etc.

We have seen teams like paramount and metro travel crush lower ranked teams and they never ever act so unprofessionally toward their opponents.



My daughter formerly played for the mojo team for 2 years (national/black team) and it was a terrible experience. A majority of the coaches are incredibly immature, unprofessional, and can be down right nasty. I chalked up the first year to bad luck but we experienced the same thing last year. My daughter got plenty of playing time but i noticed she was developing a significant amount of anxiety about likely stemming from the coaches. When they start losing the coaches would say things like "you're so lazy, you just don't care", the communication from the coaches was pretty terrible and my daughter indicated the practices were typically "boring and the coaches were not typically engaged". At the end of the season, I provided the owner, Mahraya with feedback about the coaches and her response was that "my daughter needed to get used to that type of coaching bc volleyball coaches are notoriously. mean".

Just a little information, Mojo was around years ago but they merged with East Coast Power 2 years ago but Mahraya had a falling out with the owner of ECP so they restarted Mojo again. The owner bad mouthed ECP instead of taking the high road and that stuck with me. In the past, they have promised players certain positions but not upheld the offer. Lastly, she decides all the teams and does not allow the coaches to make individual changes and honestly her favorites are pretty bad -hence why they never win... I would stay far far away from this club.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I feel like there a Mean Girls like lot brewing between big volleyball clubs in this area. When did it become so dramatic? My daughter did one of the lesser clubs and had a horrible experience. Tried a few more clinics and then got over it. I’m glad- what a toxic sport. I think the coaches are the ones that make it so.


If you want the Ultimate Mean Girls Volleyball Experience go to a Mojo pre-tryout clinic and then the tryout. Mean Girls and Mean Girl Coaches make for meanest girls at tournaments, right down to intentionally unsportsmanlike behaviors during matches and tournaments.


DP and please elaborate. My daughter went to a pre tryout and liked it. She’s registered for tryouts. Other than the price being much higher than any other club, what do you mean?


Not the PP, but we have seen the same cliquey mean girl crap with certain Mojo teams and coaches. I have personally seen unsportsmanlike behavior from some of their players and coaches. At one tournament, the Mojo girls were not taking their turn at scoring seriously - mocking the opposing teams (pointing and laughing at players making mistakes or errors, eating, checking phones) and worst of all missing score keeping points in the process. When the coach of one playing team, as well as parents, pointed out the several-point errors in their scoring, instead of apologizing and fixing it and taking it more seriously the Mojo girls continued to more dramatically eat/check phones, point, sneer and smirk at the parents and other coaches and continued their mocking and laughing about it. Even worse, at one point the Mojo coach joined in laughing with them and apparently thought it was funny that the playing teams coaches were upset by this.

It was very unprofessional. To the contrary, my DD’s team was taught by coaches to take line judging and score keeping very seriously- a job. They don’t eat, don’t use phones, certainly don’t giggle and mock the teams/players on the court. They act professionally and make sure things are accurate. If their coach saw them behaving any differently those girls would be sitting out the next match.

My daughter will not try out for Mojo bc of this. Some of the Mojo players also acted similarly off the court during HS season. Showboating to losing team, sneering, etc.

We have seen teams like paramount and metro travel crush lower ranked teams and they never ever act so unprofessionally toward their opponents.



My daughter formerly played for the mojo team for 2 years (national/black team) and it was a terrible experience. A majority of the coaches are incredibly immature, unprofessional, and can be down right nasty. I chalked up the first year to bad luck but we experienced the same thing last year. My daughter got plenty of playing time but i noticed she was developing a significant amount of anxiety about likely stemming from the coaches. When they start losing the coaches would say things like "you're so lazy, you just don't care", the communication from the coaches was pretty terrible and my daughter indicated the practices were typically "boring and the coaches were not typically engaged". At the end of the season, I provided the owner, Mahraya with feedback about the coaches and her response was that "my daughter needed to get used to that type of coaching bc volleyball coaches are notoriously. mean".

Just a little information, Mojo was around years ago but they merged with East Coast Power 2 years ago but Mahraya had a falling out with the owner of ECP so they restarted Mojo again. The owner bad mouthed ECP instead of taking the high road and that stuck with me. In the past, they have promised players certain positions but not upheld the offer. Lastly, she decides all the teams and does not allow the coaches to make individual changes and honestly her favorites are pretty bad -hence why they never win... I would stay far far away from this club.

That shows a lot of immaturity for a club volleyball coach. We had coaches on rec teams who had a better attitude: they were encouraging their players even as they were making a lot of mistakes. When you put down players, they shut down and make even more mistakes. Soon the whole team is demoralized and most likely lose, so it's even easier to cast blame. The coaching culture needs to change if they want to be more successful.
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FPYCparent wrote:In no way am I suggesting that players at Paramount (regardless of the team) are NOT deserving of the playing time they got during the season. I just wanted to inform anyone interested that some players travelled to qualifiers last season (multiple events, perhaps) and did not get on the court. So, players and families have to have realistic expectations given the expenses involved. This is a "business" decision for family ... and likely isn't unique to players considering any club that attracts players at the highest level.

Here's another story that may be worth sharing ... and one that I did NOT independently confirm. A Paramount player reached out to a college coach ahead of time to share her team's Triple Crown NIT court schedule. (The player knew that the college coach would also be at the event.) I believe (but again, I cannot confirm) that the Paramount coach was made aware that this college coach would be at the court for the opportunity to see the player in competition. The college coach showed up while Paramount was on the court, but the player was never put into the match.

...

Someone also mentioned the Paramount team that got an Open bid to USAV last season. Without going back and checking results (it looks like AES has already flushed some things), I think that team got the Open bid at a qualifier later in the season (NEQ, maybe?). That team did not make it to the Gold bracket (well, not in the top 4) at that event. However, because five of the top eight or so finishers had already earned Open bids at previous qualifiers, the bids trickled down to the three teams remaining in the top eight that didn't already have an Open bid. Since those "newly-qualified" teams were all getting Open bids, I don't even think the Silver bracket matches were even played. The Gold matches were played. Someone please correct me if my facts are wrong. Nonetheless, that Paramount team had to be good enough to even get to that point. That team just didn't get the Open bid with a top 3 finish at a qualifier.

It is not at all uncommon for players of recruiting age to invite college college coaches to watch them play at a tournament and that player to not be put into a match, especially for teams playing in Open. With teams with more than about 10 players, it's pretty likely that several players won't get a chance to play in any given match.

I've talked to multiple college coaches about this exact situation, and most of them say it doesn't matter much to them at all. They still can learn a lot about a player from watching them warm up, how they conduct themselves on the sideline, and how they interact with coaches/parents. Do they take warm ups seriously? Are they pouting because because they aren't in a match or are they cheering and supporting their team? Also, if a college coach watches a team play they are going to know better than most of us how good the players on the team are. If your DD isn't playing behind a player who is an obvious power conference prospect, the collegiate coach will understand that. They also understand that if a player is on a highly competitive team, that even the bench players are likely outstanding players. If a coach is interested, they will come back and watch another match. If they are really interested, they will come to a club team practice or make other arrangements to see them play. It's really important to keep in mind that colleges are looking for a whole person to be on their team, hopefully for at least 4 years. They care about more than just a player's performance at a tournament. A big part of the recruiting process is getting to know a player as a person and student, which means conversations with the players (and sometimes their parents), visits to the school (both official and unofficial) and an evaluation of their academics.

Paramount and Metro Travel consistently have most (if not all) of their 18s team recruited to play in college. With up to 15 girls on these teams in some years, this means that all of the non-starters are also being recruited without always being on the court at tournaments.
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FPYCparent wrote:In no way am I suggesting that players at Paramount (regardless of the team) are NOT deserving of the playing time they got during the season. I just wanted to inform anyone interested that some players travelled to qualifiers last season (multiple events, perhaps) and did not get on the court. So, players and families have to have realistic expectations given the expenses involved. This is a "business" decision for family ... and likely isn't unique to players considering any club that attracts players at the highest level.

Here's another story that may be worth sharing ... and one that I did NOT independently confirm. A Paramount player reached out to a college coach ahead of time to share her team's Triple Crown NIT court schedule. (The player knew that the college coach would also be at the event.) I believe (but again, I cannot confirm) that the Paramount coach was made aware that this college coach would be at the court for the opportunity to see the player in competition. The college coach showed up while Paramount was on the court, but the player was never put into the match.

...

Someone also mentioned the Paramount team that got an Open bid to USAV last season. Without going back and checking results (it looks like AES has already flushed some things), I think that team got the Open bid at a qualifier later in the season (NEQ, maybe?). That team did not make it to the Gold bracket (well, not in the top 4) at that event. However, because five of the top eight or so finishers had already earned Open bids at previous qualifiers, the bids trickled down to the three teams remaining in the top eight that didn't already have an Open bid. Since those "newly-qualified" teams were all getting Open bids, I don't even think the Silver bracket matches were even played. The Gold matches were played. Someone please correct me if my facts are wrong. Nonetheless, that Paramount team had to be good enough to even get to that point. That team just didn't get the Open bid with a top 3 finish at a qualifier.

It is not at all uncommon for players of recruiting age to invite college college coaches to watch them play at a tournament and that player to not be put into a match, especially for teams playing in Open. With teams with more than about 10 players, it's pretty likely that several players won't get a chance to play in any given match.

I've talked to multiple college coaches about this exact situation, and most of them say it doesn't matter much to them at all. They still can learn a lot about a player from watching them warm up, how they conduct themselves on the sideline, and how they interact with coaches/parents. Do they take warm ups seriously? Are they pouting because because they aren't in a match or are they cheering and supporting their team? Also, if a college coach watches a team play they are going to know better than most of us how good the players on the team are. If your DD isn't playing behind a player who is an obvious power conference prospect, the collegiate coach will understand that. They also understand that if a player is on a highly competitive team, that even the bench players are likely outstanding players. If a coach is interested, they will come back and watch another match. If they are really interested, they will come to a club team practice or make other arrangements to see them play. It's really important to keep in mind that colleges are looking for a whole person to be on their team, hopefully for at least 4 years. They care about more than just a player's performance at a tournament. A big part of the recruiting process is getting to know a player as a person and student, which means conversations with the players (and sometimes their parents), visits to the school (both official and unofficial) and an evaluation of their academics.

Paramount and Metro Travel consistently have most (if not all) of their 18s team recruited to play in college. With up to 15 girls on these teams in some years, this means that all of the non-starters are also being recruited without always being on the court at tournaments.


I agree with a lot of this. Coaches definitely look at the whole player and consider a lot more than just their performance in one match or one tournament. They’ll also request game film and sometimes even practice film along with seeing players in person.

But watching a player play live gives coaches tons of info: what’s their volleyball IQ? how do they handle specific pressure situations? How do they interact with teammates? Do they want the ball when it matters, or do they give up the lead to other players? How do they recover from mistakes?

You really can’t see any of this in practice film or even in game film. That’s why they come to tournaments. And I think it’s safe to say no college coach at a good program is ever recruiting a player based on how they perform in warmups.

If a club coach knows an interested college coach will be on a court to watch someone, and then doesn’t give the player any playing time, it speaks volumes about both the coaches’ priorities and the clubs priorities.

Often, those players are playing for those clubs because of the recruiting potential. The clubs market heavily on it—you see posts literally every day about their recruits on instagram, et al. But when the time comes to let the player play in front of the college they are interested in, the focus is suddenly more on winning than recruiting.
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Anonymous wrote:We went to a Mojo clinic and I'm not sure whether it's even worth going to their tryout.

Was it just me, or did anyone else feel like their rosters are already set? Is Mojo just a money grab?

Agree with PP -- too many players in one space & not much coaching.

Maybe MOCO, Vienna, or MVSA are better options this year?

We just signed up for Vienna tryouts for our kids.


Also, Mojos tryout fee was pretty high compared to others. I saw the director talking to individual girls at clinics on the sideline. No doubt she was recruiting


The Mojo director is so obnoxious -we went to one of their tryouts last year and I pulled my daughter early. They daughter's friend plays for them and she just happened to land on a team with a good coach but she said she would run away fast if she learned she was going to be coached by the director. The parent of this daughter indicated she was down right uncomfortable to watch.
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FPYCparent wrote:In no way am I suggesting that players at Paramount (regardless of the team) are NOT deserving of the playing time they got during the season. I just wanted to inform anyone interested that some players travelled to qualifiers last season (multiple events, perhaps) and did not get on the court. So, players and families have to have realistic expectations given the expenses involved. This is a "business" decision for family ... and likely isn't unique to players considering any club that attracts players at the highest level.

Here's another story that may be worth sharing ... and one that I did NOT independently confirm. A Paramount player reached out to a college coach ahead of time to share her team's Triple Crown NIT court schedule. (The player knew that the college coach would also be at the event.) I believe (but again, I cannot confirm) that the Paramount coach was made aware that this college coach would be at the court for the opportunity to see the player in competition. The college coach showed up while Paramount was on the court, but the player was never put into the match.

...

Someone also mentioned the Paramount team that got an Open bid to USAV last season. Without going back and checking results (it looks like AES has already flushed some things), I think that team got the Open bid at a qualifier later in the season (NEQ, maybe?). That team did not make it to the Gold bracket (well, not in the top 4) at that event. However, because five of the top eight or so finishers had already earned Open bids at previous qualifiers, the bids trickled down to the three teams remaining in the top eight that didn't already have an Open bid. Since those "newly-qualified" teams were all getting Open bids, I don't even think the Silver bracket matches were even played. The Gold matches were played. Someone please correct me if my facts are wrong. Nonetheless, that Paramount team had to be good enough to even get to that point. That team just didn't get the Open bid with a top 3 finish at a qualifier.

It is not at all uncommon for players of recruiting age to invite college college coaches to watch them play at a tournament and that player to not be put into a match, especially for teams playing in Open. With teams with more than about 10 players, it's pretty likely that several players won't get a chance to play in any given match.

I've talked to multiple college coaches about this exact situation, and most of them say it doesn't matter much to them at all. They still can learn a lot about a player from watching them warm up, how they conduct themselves on the sideline, and how they interact with coaches/parents. Do they take warm ups seriously? Are they pouting because because they aren't in a match or are they cheering and supporting their team? Also, if a college coach watches a team play they are going to know better than most of us how good the players on the team are. If your DD isn't playing behind a player who is an obvious power conference prospect, the collegiate coach will understand that. They also understand that if a player is on a highly competitive team, that even the bench players are likely outstanding players. If a coach is interested, they will come back and watch another match. If they are really interested, they will come to a club team practice or make other arrangements to see them play. It's really important to keep in mind that colleges are looking for a whole person to be on their team, hopefully for at least 4 years. They care about more than just a player's performance at a tournament. A big part of the recruiting process is getting to know a player as a person and student, which means conversations with the players (and sometimes their parents), visits to the school (both official and unofficial) and an evaluation of their academics.

Paramount and Metro Travel consistently have most (if not all) of their 18s team recruited to play in college. With up to 15 girls on these teams in some years, this means that all of the non-starters are also being recruited without always being on the court at tournaments.


I agree with a lot of this. Coaches definitely look at the whole player and consider a lot more than just their performance in one match or one tournament. They’ll also request game film and sometimes even practice film along with seeing players in person.

But watching a player play live gives coaches tons of info: what’s their volleyball IQ? how do they handle specific pressure situations? How do they interact with teammates? Do they want the ball when it matters, or do they give up the lead to other players? How do they recover from mistakes?

You really can’t see any of this in practice film or even in game film. That’s why they come to tournaments. And I think it’s safe to say no college coach at a good program is ever recruiting a player based on how they perform in warmups.

If a club coach knows an interested college coach will be on a court to watch someone, and then doesn’t give the player any playing time, it speaks volumes about both the coaches’ priorities and the clubs priorities.

Often, those players are playing for those clubs because of the recruiting potential. The clubs market heavily on it—you see posts literally every day about their recruits on instagram, et al. But when the time comes to let the player play in front of the college they are interested in, the focus is suddenly more on winning than recruiting.

PP here. I understand how you might have read it that way, but I didn't mean to suggest that a college coach was going to make an offer to a player that they have never seen play. Just that it's not an uncommon situation for a college coach to come watch a player and them not make it into the match. A player needs to do their part to make a good impression in that situation and wait for the coach gets to see them play in another match.

And to be clear, I have absolutely seen club coaches put certain players into a match in order to allow a particular college coach to watch them play. I have also seen 30+ college coaches around a match at a tournament (e.g., Metro 16 Travel vs Mintonette in the semifinal at JVA Summerfest in June) and it really wouldn't be feasible for a club coach to manage getting every player into a match in that kind of scenario.
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FPYCparent wrote:In no way am I suggesting that players at Paramount (regardless of the team) are NOT deserving of the playing time they got during the season. I just wanted to inform anyone interested that some players travelled to qualifiers last season (multiple events, perhaps) and did not get on the court. So, players and families have to have realistic expectations given the expenses involved. This is a "business" decision for family ... and likely isn't unique to players considering any club that attracts players at the highest level.

Here's another story that may be worth sharing ... and one that I did NOT independently confirm. A Paramount player reached out to a college coach ahead of time to share her team's Triple Crown NIT court schedule. (The player knew that the college coach would also be at the event.) I believe (but again, I cannot confirm) that the Paramount coach was made aware that this college coach would be at the court for the opportunity to see the player in competition. The college coach showed up while Paramount was on the court, but the player was never put into the match.

...

Someone also mentioned the Paramount team that got an Open bid to USAV last season. Without going back and checking results (it looks like AES has already flushed some things), I think that team got the Open bid at a qualifier later in the season (NEQ, maybe?). That team did not make it to the Gold bracket (well, not in the top 4) at that event. However, because five of the top eight or so finishers had already earned Open bids at previous qualifiers, the bids trickled down to the three teams remaining in the top eight that didn't already have an Open bid. Since those "newly-qualified" teams were all getting Open bids, I don't even think the Silver bracket matches were even played. The Gold matches were played. Someone please correct me if my facts are wrong. Nonetheless, that Paramount team had to be good enough to even get to that point. That team just didn't get the Open bid with a top 3 finish at a qualifier.

It is not at all uncommon for players of recruiting age to invite college college coaches to watch them play at a tournament and that player to not be put into a match, especially for teams playing in Open. With teams with more than about 10 players, it's pretty likely that several players won't get a chance to play in any given match.

I've talked to multiple college coaches about this exact situation, and most of them say it doesn't matter much to them at all. They still can learn a lot about a player from watching them warm up, how they conduct themselves on the sideline, and how they interact with coaches/parents. Do they take warm ups seriously? Are they pouting because because they aren't in a match or are they cheering and supporting their team? Also, if a college coach watches a team play they are going to know better than most of us how good the players on the team are. If your DD isn't playing behind a player who is an obvious power conference prospect, the collegiate coach will understand that. They also understand that if a player is on a highly competitive team, that even the bench players are likely outstanding players. If a coach is interested, they will come back and watch another match. If they are really interested, they will come to a club team practice or make other arrangements to see them play. It's really important to keep in mind that colleges are looking for a whole person to be on their team, hopefully for at least 4 years. They care about more than just a player's performance at a tournament. A big part of the recruiting process is getting to know a player as a person and student, which means conversations with the players (and sometimes their parents), visits to the school (both official and unofficial) and an evaluation of their academics.

Paramount and Metro Travel consistently have most (if not all) of their 18s team recruited to play in college. With up to 15 girls on these teams in some years, this means that all of the non-starters are also being recruited without always being on the court at tournaments.


I agree with a lot of this. Coaches definitely look at the whole player and consider a lot more than just their performance in one match or one tournament. They’ll also request game film and sometimes even practice film along with seeing players in person.

But watching a player play live gives coaches tons of info: what’s their volleyball IQ? how do they handle specific pressure situations? How do they interact with teammates? Do they want the ball when it matters, or do they give up the lead to other players? How do they recover from mistakes?

You really can’t see any of this in practice film or even in game film. That’s why they come to tournaments. And I think it’s safe to say no college coach at a good program is ever recruiting a player based on how they perform in warmups.

If a club coach knows an interested college coach will be on a court to watch someone, and then doesn’t give the player any playing time, it speaks volumes about both the coaches’ priorities and the clubs priorities.

Often, those players are playing for those clubs because of the recruiting potential. The clubs market heavily on it—you see posts literally every day about their recruits on instagram, et al. But when the time comes to let the player play in front of the college they are interested in, the focus is suddenly more on winning than recruiting.

PP here. I understand how you might have read it that way, but I didn't mean to suggest that a college coach was going to make an offer to a player that they have never seen play. Just that it's not an uncommon situation for a college coach to come watch a player and them not make it into the match. A player needs to do their part to make a good impression in that situation and wait for the coach gets to see them play in another match.

And to be clear, I have absolutely seen club coaches put certain players into a match in order to allow a particular college coach to watch them play. I have also seen 30+ college coaches around a match at a tournament (e.g., Metro 16 Travel vs Mintonette in the semifinal at JVA Summerfest in June) and it really wouldn't be feasible for a club coach to manage getting every player into a match in that kind of scenario.


That's fair. Are you talking about the quarterfinal last year? Mintonette usually has a much smaller roster than Metro (10-11) and tends to play their full roster, or at least have when we played them. Its much harder for Metro and Paramount to do that carrying 15 players on a roster.

Having 30 coaches around a court happens sometimes. It even happens outside of open level competitions. We've been on courts with that many coaches in lower level pool play at qualifiers. In those situations most players understand you can't please everyone. Its much more common though to have 5 or fewer coaches on a court. Its good that some coaches make the attempt to get players in when the coaches are there. Unless you are in an outlier situation like you described it shouldn't be hard to do unless the coaches' only focus is winning (and that assumes that the players they put in would cause the outcome of the match to change, which often isn't the case).

However, there are a number of examples of players who play for VA Elite, Metro or Paramount who attend qualifiers, have coaches coming to watch them, and then don't play in the matches that the coaches will be there -- or in any match during the tournament. Earlier posts in this thread confirm that as well. That's directly contrary to the marketing those clubs focus on.
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FPYCparent wrote:In no way am I suggesting that players at Paramount (regardless of the team) are NOT deserving of the playing time they got during the season. I just wanted to inform anyone interested that some players travelled to qualifiers last season (multiple events, perhaps) and did not get on the court. So, players and families have to have realistic expectations given the expenses involved. This is a "business" decision for family ... and likely isn't unique to players considering any club that attracts players at the highest level.

Here's another story that may be worth sharing ... and one that I did NOT independently confirm. A Paramount player reached out to a college coach ahead of time to share her team's Triple Crown NIT court schedule. (The player knew that the college coach would also be at the event.) I believe (but again, I cannot confirm) that the Paramount coach was made aware that this college coach would be at the court for the opportunity to see the player in competition. The college coach showed up while Paramount was on the court, but the player was never put into the match.

...

Someone also mentioned the Paramount team that got an Open bid to USAV last season. Without going back and checking results (it looks like AES has already flushed some things), I think that team got the Open bid at a qualifier later in the season (NEQ, maybe?). That team did not make it to the Gold bracket (well, not in the top 4) at that event. However, because five of the top eight or so finishers had already earned Open bids at previous qualifiers, the bids trickled down to the three teams remaining in the top eight that didn't already have an Open bid. Since those "newly-qualified" teams were all getting Open bids, I don't even think the Silver bracket matches were even played. The Gold matches were played. Someone please correct me if my facts are wrong. Nonetheless, that Paramount team had to be good enough to even get to that point. That team just didn't get the Open bid with a top 3 finish at a qualifier.

It is not at all uncommon for players of recruiting age to invite college college coaches to watch them play at a tournament and that player to not be put into a match, especially for teams playing in Open. With teams with more than about 10 players, it's pretty likely that several players won't get a chance to play in any given match.

I've talked to multiple college coaches about this exact situation, and most of them say it doesn't matter much to them at all. They still can learn a lot about a player from watching them warm up, how they conduct themselves on the sideline, and how they interact with coaches/parents. Do they take warm ups seriously? Are they pouting because because they aren't in a match or are they cheering and supporting their team? Also, if a college coach watches a team play they are going to know better than most of us how good the players on the team are. If your DD isn't playing behind a player who is an obvious power conference prospect, the collegiate coach will understand that. They also understand that if a player is on a highly competitive team, that even the bench players are likely outstanding players. If a coach is interested, they will come back and watch another match. If they are really interested, they will come to a club team practice or make other arrangements to see them play. It's really important to keep in mind that colleges are looking for a whole person to be on their team, hopefully for at least 4 years. They care about more than just a player's performance at a tournament. A big part of the recruiting process is getting to know a player as a person and student, which means conversations with the players (and sometimes their parents), visits to the school (both official and unofficial) and an evaluation of their academics.

Paramount and Metro Travel consistently have most (if not all) of their 18s team recruited to play in college. With up to 15 girls on these teams in some years, this means that all of the non-starters are also being recruited without always being on the court at tournaments.


I agree with a lot of this. Coaches definitely look at the whole player and consider a lot more than just their performance in one match or one tournament. They’ll also request game film and sometimes even practice film along with seeing players in person.

But watching a player play live gives coaches tons of info: what’s their volleyball IQ? how do they handle specific pressure situations? How do they interact with teammates? Do they want the ball when it matters, or do they give up the lead to other players? How do they recover from mistakes?

You really can’t see any of this in practice film or even in game film. That’s why they come to tournaments. And I think it’s safe to say no college coach at a good program is ever recruiting a player based on how they perform in warmups.

If a club coach knows an interested college coach will be on a court to watch someone, and then doesn’t give the player any playing time, it speaks volumes about both the coaches’ priorities and the clubs priorities.

Often, those players are playing for those clubs because of the recruiting potential. The clubs market heavily on it—you see posts literally every day about their recruits on instagram, et al. But when the time comes to let the player play in front of the college they are interested in, the focus is suddenly more on winning than recruiting.

PP here. I understand how you might have read it that way, but I didn't mean to suggest that a college coach was going to make an offer to a player that they have never seen play. Just that it's not an uncommon situation for a college coach to come watch a player and them not make it into the match. A player needs to do their part to make a good impression in that situation and wait for the coach gets to see them play in another match.

And to be clear, I have absolutely seen club coaches put certain players into a match in order to allow a particular college coach to watch them play. I have also seen 30+ college coaches around a match at a tournament (e.g., Metro 16 Travel vs Mintonette in the semifinal at JVA Summerfest in June) and it really wouldn't be feasible for a club coach to manage getting every player into a match in that kind of scenario.


That's fair. Are you talking about the quarterfinal last year? Mintonette usually has a much smaller roster than Metro (10-11) and tends to play their full roster, or at least have when we played them. Its much harder for Metro and Paramount to do that carrying 15 players on a roster.

Having 30 coaches around a court happens sometimes. It even happens outside of open level competitions. We've been on courts with that many coaches in lower level pool play at qualifiers. In those situations most players understand you can't please everyone. Its much more common though to have 5 or fewer coaches on a court. Its good that some coaches make the attempt to get players in when the coaches are there. Unless you are in an outlier situation like you described it shouldn't be hard to do unless the coaches' only focus is winning (and that assumes that the players they put in would cause the outcome of the match to change, which often isn't the case).

However, there are a number of examples of players who play for VA Elite, Metro or Paramount who attend qualifiers, have coaches coming to watch them, and then don't play in the matches that the coaches will be there -- or in any match during the tournament. Earlier posts in this thread confirm that as well. That's directly contrary to the marketing those clubs focus on.

You're right - it was the quarterfinal. And coaches were definitely there to look at players from both teams, especially considering that match was just 2 weeks before June 15. Looking in AES, that Mintonette team had 11 players on the roster (as an aside, that team won the AAU 16 Open National Championship and their assistant coach was current Ohio State star Emily Londot) so you're also correct it would be easier for them to get most of their players in the match. I also agree that for Paramount, Metro Travel, and VA Elite, in many matches putting in a non-starter or two is not likely to impact the outcome of the match, with the strength of the players on the bench. Given that these teams don't always achieve the levels of success they are hoping for, you would expect them to be more open to trying different lineups or giving other players a chance, but it does often seem like they settle on a starting lineup early in the season and don't deviate from that too much.
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Anonymous wrote:I feel like there a Mean Girls like lot brewing between big volleyball clubs in this area. When did it become so dramatic? My daughter did one of the lesser clubs and had a horrible experience. Tried a few more clinics and then got over it. I’m glad- what a toxic sport. I think the coaches are the ones that make it so.


If you want the Ultimate Mean Girls Volleyball Experience go to a Mojo pre-tryout clinic and then the tryout. Mean Girls and Mean Girl Coaches make for meanest girls at tournaments, right down to intentionally unsportsmanlike behaviors during matches and tournaments.


I think you will find mean girls and cliques pretty much everywhere. And I don't mean just every volleyball club, but pretty much every sport. You will always have the girls with crop tops, fake eyelashes, and weekly manicure sessions believing that they are superior to those dressed more modestly and braving the world with their natural eyelashes and without nail polish. Our team had one of those cliques with the "cool" girls being very obvious in their disdain of the others in the team. They would not even put their hands around the other players as they were going to the middle of the court to celebrate a point (the same attitude was visible in the team pictures). They were pretty insufferable, but hopefully they will change as they age.


You can wear crop tops and nail polish and not be a mean girl. I find this post offensive.



NP but yes obviously there are outliers as to what the specific girls are wearing or what the latest trend is……but the principle is still the same. The girls wearing/saying/doing all the trendy things are typically more of the mean girl crowd than not. And if this hits too close to home, you might want to examine not how your DD treats her friends but try observing how she treats or speaks to girls who are not so trendy.
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Anonymous wrote:I feel like there a Mean Girls like lot brewing between big volleyball clubs in this area. When did it become so dramatic? My daughter did one of the lesser clubs and had a horrible experience. Tried a few more clinics and then got over it. I’m glad- what a toxic sport. I think the coaches are the ones that make it so.


If you want the Ultimate Mean Girls Volleyball Experience go to a Mojo pre-tryout clinic and then the tryout. Mean Girls and Mean Girl Coaches make for meanest girls at tournaments, right down to intentionally unsportsmanlike behaviors during matches and tournaments.


DP and please elaborate. My daughter went to a pre tryout and liked it. She’s registered for tryouts. Other than the price being much higher than any other club, what do you mean?


Yes it’s nice to be “chosen” but I encourage you to take note of what happens to the girls they aren’t trying to recruit during those clinics. I’m not sure they are even aware of how distasteful it is. Maybe they think other clubs do the same “separate the wheat from the chaff” thing during clinics, but they don’t.
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