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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like there a Mean Girls like lot brewing between big volleyball clubs in this area. When did it become so dramatic? My daughter did one of the lesser clubs and had a horrible experience. Tried a few more clinics and then got over it. I’m glad- what a toxic sport. I think the coaches are the ones that make it so.[/quote] If you want the Ultimate Mean Girls Volleyball Experience go to a Mojo pre-tryout clinic and then the tryout. Mean Girls and Mean Girl Coaches make for meanest girls at tournaments, right down to intentionally unsportsmanlike behaviors during matches and tournaments. [/quote] I think you will find mean girls and cliques pretty much everywhere. And I don't mean just every volleyball club, but pretty much every sport. [b]You will always have the girls with crop tops, fake eyelashes, and weekly manicure sessions believing that they are superior to those dressed more modestly and braving the world with their natural eyelashes and without nail polish. [/b]Our team had one of those cliques with the "cool" girls being very obvious in their disdain of the others in the team. They would not even put their hands around the other players as they were going to the middle of the court to celebrate a point (the same attitude was visible in the team pictures). They were pretty insufferable, but hopefully they will change as they age. [/quote] You can wear crop tops and nail polish and not be a mean girl. I find this post offensive. [/quote] NP but yes obviously there are outliers as to what the specific girls are wearing or what the latest trend is……but the principle is still the same. The girls wearing/saying/doing all the trendy things are typically more of the mean girl crowd than not. And if this hits too close to home, you might want to examine not how your DD treats her friends but try observing how she treats or speaks to girls who are not so trendy. [/quote]
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