Do you send your grown kids something for V day?

[Anonymous]

Do you?

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

I used to. Just a cute card and their favorite candy. I didn’t this year and likely won’t again. He doesn’t seem to care. My daughter might though. Time will tell.

[Anonymous]

My mom sends me a card. I sent my college age dd 3 boxes of Girl Scout cookies and a card that her younger brother and I made.

[Anonymous]

I mailed DD this 3D cupcake valentine and told her next time we get together we’ll get real ones. She liked it.
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[Anonymous]

Well my kids are in college, so not sure if that's "grown" enough LOL but I sent them some chocolates.

[Anonymous]

I'm 48 and my mom sometimes sends me something like chocolate. Not regurlarly though. I don't expect it but it's a nice surprise when she does.

[Anonymous]

My mother sent me a card and chocolates. Same for the kids. Honestly, I wish that she would stop doing this. I hate it. I get a box of throw-away Hallmark junk that goes directly in the trash. I don't need the chocolates and kids get enough sweets from the valentine swap at school.

I say thank you always but wish she would just stop. There's a huge generational gap here.

[Anonymous]

Not anymore. Just a family group text message. They have their own spouses/SO's so have someone to celebrate with.

[Anonymous]

My Dad sent me a card every single year...but he passed away in October. I put up some of the older ones I still have.

[Anonymous]

Yep. I still love them. And they still send me a card.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My mother sent me a card and chocolates. Same for the kids. Honestly, I wish that she would stop doing this. I hate it. I get a box of throw-away Hallmark junk that goes directly in the trash. I don't need the chocolates and kids get enough sweets from the valentine swap at school.

I say thank you always but wish she would just stop. There's a huge generational gap here.

This makes me sad. I hope when DD has kids this won’t be her response.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My mother sent me a card and chocolates. Same for the kids. Honestly, I wish that she would stop doing this. I hate it. I get a box of throw-away Hallmark junk that goes directly in the trash. I don't need the chocolates and kids get enough sweets from the valentine swap at school.

I say thank you always but wish she would just stop. There's a huge generational gap here.

Have you ever told her to stop? Or do you just expect her to know that from your thank you?

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

No, I don't give my kids anything now and they live with me.