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Parents where do your teens hang out at? My 14 yr old needs and wants to get out the house to interact with others their age. FYI I am in the city.
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| He goes to his friends' houses and occasionally they come here. |
| what kind of rando on the internet asks where kids hang out? there is no proof you're a parent. |
| His computer where he talks to other friends on their computers. On a rare occasion some meet at Chipotle. |
| My 15 year old does not hang out. He occasionally meets a friend at the movies or something like that. He’s very introverted so he’s probably an outlier. |
| We live in SF. They hang at friends houses, Japantown, and near the ocean. |
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But this summer he has been...:
The pool (he is a lifeguard/on the swim team/volunteers with the younger swim team swimmers) Friends' houses (there is one house they particularly hang out at that has a basement/game room) Online playing games with friends In his bed watching you tube |
| OP, SMH my experience was so different I remember going to the food court or playground doing nothing but atleast it was other teens. My kid wants to get out but can't find much. |
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Pool
Other kids houses Community rec center and surrounding courts/fields Local shopping center. Literally, the grocery store. |
I don’t think OP is asking people to say “Henry’s house 123 Fourth St.” |
| Friends’ houses or the pool. |
| Pool, friends houses, our house, local parks, Six Flags, walk to 7/11, online. |
| ChickFilA, the pool, local outdoor mall, friend’s house, movie theatre, but mostly on video games in his room. |
| Mostly on line with friends. In person, he sees other kids at the pool (but isn't really friends with them, so doesn't join in), and at his summer service project. I send him out the house to the playground, bball courts, bookstore, etc, hoping he'll find someone, but no one is around. Basically, if he doesn't make 1:1 plans with someone, he doesn't see anyone. I don't know where everyone else is either, so I make sure he gets out and about with the family at least. |
| Not everyone is a natural “hang at the mall” person. I never was, but I always had sports/activities/jobs for human interaction. Your 14 year old may not need much free time. |