Can we analyze jennifer lopez?

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Anonymous wrote:I have had enough of JLo's antics. She is becoming Madonna.

Madonna is actually more submissive than J Lo. I was surprised to learn she didn’t have a prenup for her marriage with Guy. She started drinking and going to pubs and pretending she cared about hunting when she lived in the English countryside with Guy . She said Sean Penn was the love of her life despite admitting Sean was violently abusive to her and one time beat her so badly she passed out. She started working out and/ or taking steroids when dating A Rod . She dressed like an old Hwood starlet when dating Warren Beatty, and started dressing like a female Vanilla Ice when dating 2Pac.

I don’t think she’s ever going to get married again after the Guy divorce took half her fortune and he married a younger woman.

To be fair to Madonna, she has reinvented herself half a dozen times, outside of these relationships, it is just her general MO.

Perhaps but she is surprisingly more submissive or man centric than people expect . She took a year off when married to Sean in the 80s in the peak of her career to be a housewife .

Then, her supposed business savvy/marketing genius image falls flat when one notices she didn’t even have a prenup for her marriage to Guy and he took her money and married someone younger . She had to tour extensively to recover financially and it took a toll on her body. She looked ridiculous moving back to NY to chase Arod but Arod denying it. She looked like she was trying to become a bodybuilder with Arod . It was cringe

I don’t think J Lo was ever dumb enough to avoid prenup and I don’t think she ever changed herself or bend over backwards for men which is probably the problem. She’s the Bronx girl who wants lights, cameras, and action at all times even on her relationships. Ben likes photo ops and attention seeking too but the critical duds are what are scaring him away from Jennifer yet again

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:I have had enough of JLo's antics. She is becoming Madonna.

Madonna is actually more submissive than J Lo. I was surprised to learn she didn’t have a prenup for her marriage with Guy. She started drinking and going to pubs and pretending she cared about hunting when she lived in the English countryside with Guy . She said Sean Penn was the love of her life despite admitting Sean was violently abusive to her and one time beat her so badly she passed out. She started working out and/ or taking steroids when dating A Rod . She dressed like an old Hwood starlet when dating Warren Beatty, and started dressing like a female Vanilla Ice when dating 2Pac.

I don’t think she’s ever going to get married again after the Guy divorce took half her fortune and he married a younger woman.

To be fair to Madonna, she has reinvented herself half a dozen times, outside of these relationships, it is just her general MO.

Perhaps but she is surprisingly more submissive or man centric than people expect . She took a year off when married to Sean in the 80s in the peak of her career to be a housewife .

Then, her supposed business savvy/marketing genius image falls flat when one notices she didn’t even have a prenup for her marriage to Guy and he took her money and married someone younger . She had to tour extensively to recover financially and it took a toll on her body. She looked ridiculous moving back to NY to chase Arod but Arod denying it. She looked like she was trying to become a bodybuilder with Arod . It was cringe

I don’t think J Lo was ever dumb enough to avoid prenup and I don’t think she ever changed herself or bend over backwards for men which is probably the problem. She’s the Bronx girl who wants lights, cameras, and action at all times even on her relationships. Ben likes photo ops and attention seeking too but the critical duds are what are scaring him away from Jennifer yet again

Nah, a lot of this is just BS you've imagined up for yourself. New hobby time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

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Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

Really?

[Anonymous]

JLo also not wearing wedding ring today.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

And you're still including women who are focused on their careers, take care with their appearance, enjoy a social life AND love and spend quality time with their children. It doesn't make the children a lower priority.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

And you're still including women who are focused on their careers, take care with their appearance, enjoy a social life AND love and spend quality time with their children. It doesn't make the children a lower priority.

Da

There is a difference between people who work and workaholics. workaholics do not priorize their family/kids.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

And you're still including women who are focused on their careers, take care with their appearance, enjoy a social life AND love and spend quality time with their children. It doesn't make the children a lower priority.

Yes it does. That is the reality of life. You need a certain quantity of time to really build relationships and to actually parent. You can't breeze in for 10 minutes here and there, call it quality time (which means what?) and then say you prioritized being a parent. Prioritizing requires time. Lots of parents don't prioritize their kids. Whether that is good or bad is based on your values and beliefs about what kids need in life. You can't do everything well and many parents don't have the time to parent well so they leave much of that to others. Lots of successful adults didn't have parents who prioritized them.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

And you're still including women who are focused on their careers, take care with their appearance, enjoy a social life AND love and spend quality time with their children. It doesn't make the children a lower priority.

Da

There is a difference between people who work and workaholics. workaholics do not priorize their family/kids.

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There is also a difference in looking good and taking care of oneself and having elaborate outfits, hairstyles and makeup every day.

[Anonymous]

Making something a priority means you make it more important than others things. You put it ahead of other things. You do it before. You put more time and energy into it.

That is what prioritizing is. Does she put more time and energy in her kids than other aspects of her life? Do her decisions support her kids as being most important and put before other aspects of her life?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:JLo also not wearing wedding ring today.

where?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

And you're still including women who are focused on their careers, take care with their appearance, enjoy a social life AND love and spend quality time with their children. It doesn't make the children a lower priority.

Da

There is a difference between people who work and workaholics. workaholics do not priorize their family/kids.

+1
There is also a difference in looking good and taking care of oneself and having elaborate outfits, hairstyles and makeup every day.

But if you never have to cook, clean, mow the lawn?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Madonna and Angelina are great moms though and it doesn’t seem like either are bothered with being single moms . J Lo has a new dad in the house every 2 years for her kids

J Lo's kids are not her priority. Her appearance and career take up most of her time.

Tell that to all the working, good-looking moms out there. Let them know they aren't prioritizing their kids.

PP here. I don't need to tell anyone. I've worked my whole adult life and raised 2 kids. My daughter and daufhter-in-law have careers, too. Nonetheless, there are only 24 hours in a day. JLo clearly spends most of her time getting ready for appearances, rehearsing, traveling, exercising, etc. Addidionally, she's been dating, marrued, divorcing, and in other serious relationships. All take time. That lifestyle is NOT prioritizing her kids.

And you're still including women who are focused on their careers, take care with their appearance, enjoy a social life AND love and spend quality time with their children. It doesn't make the children a lower priority.

Da

There is a difference between people who work and workaholics. workaholics do not priorize their family/kids.

+1
There is also a difference in looking good and taking care of oneself and having elaborate outfits, hairstyles and makeup every day.

But if you never have to cook, clean, mow the lawn?

And you don't drive so your kids are chauffeured everywhere they need to go, and you have assistants to handle every errand imaginable?