Recently separated, keep thinking about sex! What gives

Anonymous
A few months since I left dh and haven't slept with anyone but can't get out of this headspace. Is this what they mean when they say women reach their sexual peak in their late 30's and early40's? Is this what it's like for men 24/7? I keep finding myself eyeing strangers and thinking, I could hit that. I don't even know how this is possible when the divorce process has been so agonizing... What is wrong with me?! Had anyone else been through this? What do you do to deal??
Anonymous
Sex is the antidote to grief. And it’s spring! And you have a sex drive! And you are allowed to do whatever you want now. It’s totally normal and natural.
Anonymous
Not sure but I'm happily married and...same!
Anonymous
Just think about how annoying those guys will be after you have sex with him. Quite similar to your husband, even. They're only hot until you get to know them!
Anonymous
Dildo?
Anonymous
I'd like to meet you!
- single guy
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Just think about how annoying those guys will be after you have sex with him. Quite similar to your husband, even. They're only hot until you get to know them!

but all the more reason for fantasizing about NSA, no?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I'd like to meet you!
- single guy

I bet there's no shortage of men who would...
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A few months since I left dh and haven't slept with anyone but can't get out of this headspace. Is this what they mean when they say women reach their sexual peak in their late 30's and early40's? Is this what it's like for men 24/7? I keep finding myself eyeing strangers and thinking, I could hit that. I don't even know how this is possible when the divorce process has been so agonizing... What is wrong with me?! Had anyone else been through this? What do you do to deal??
Nothing is wrong with you. Everyone has been through it. Go to Engineering School at UVa or a similarly chauvinist culture-you won't want to sleep with the misogynist techbod guys--I PROMISE.
Anonymous
Your subconscious has zeroed in on one of the benefits of divorce, new people to have sex with!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd like to meet you!
- single guy

I bet there's no shortage of men with wood...


FIFY.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'd like to meet you!
- single guy

I bet there's no shortage of men with wood...


FIFY.

Haaaaaa
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Just think about how annoying those guys will be after you have sex with him. Quite similar to your husband, even. They're only hot until you get to know them!

but all the more reason for fantasizing about NSA, no?

Oh, please. This isn’t the bathhouse. NSA always, always end with strings. That’s why it’s called fantasy and not reality.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A few months since I left dh and haven't slept with anyone but can't get out of this headspace. Is this what they mean when they say women reach their sexual peak in their late 30's and early40's? Is this what it's like for men 24/7? I keep finding myself eyeing strangers and thinking, I could hit that. I don't even know how this is possible when the divorce process has been so agonizing... What is wrong with me?! Had anyone else been through this? What do you do to deal??


Yes.

Although in fairness, it's more like multiple times a day, and anytime we pass an attractive woman, rather than a true 24/7. Hard to control, aint it?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:A few months since I left dh and haven't slept with anyone but can't get out of this headspace. Is this what they mean when they say women reach their sexual peak in their late 30's and early40's? Is this what it's like for men 24/7? I keep finding myself eyeing strangers and thinking, I could hit that. I don't even know how this is possible when the divorce process has been so agonizing... What is wrong with me?! Had anyone else been through this? What do you do to deal??


I think women who aren’t in relationships LOVE sex. Relationships eventually kill their drives.
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