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The Wotton youtube celebration
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+1 Magnet UME family, Saving for graduate school. |
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Well 57 kids still managed to apply to MIT. 61 to Stanford. Some of those might be non magnet applications but that’s almost 50% of the class. Maybe you don’t read into the absolute performance but the relative performance compared to non magnet schools is still interesting and those stats are also impacted by the alleged “I didn’t even bother trying to apply” issue. The relative performance doesn’t seem all that great considering it’s a magnet and the accompanying logistical issues about transportation and hours etc. maybe you are better off staying in your home school. |
Mom to the high-performing magnet grad here. College admissions didn't drive the choice for DC to attend the magnet. In fact, college admissions was not a factor at all. |
Good for you. But would you permit it to be a factor for some of us? And if it is, could we please raise a legitimate question of whether going through the trouble of the magnet program is worth it? Would that be ok with you? |
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PP 12:35 If your sole goal is college admissions, please don't apply to the magnet program. It's not what it's about. We understand that our kid would be at the tippy top student at a regular school- but maybe only average in a magnet program.
Sincerely RMIB Magnet Mom. |
Is your question whether magnets are worth it for college admissions? They answer is absolutely no and I feel bad for the kids whose parents are pushing it for that reason. It’s a self selecting population. It may actually make it harder to get into college because, in comparison to your peers, you don’t look as impressive. The only good reason to go to a magnet high school is because you think it’s a good fit and environment for your child and your child WANTS to go. So many of those high school kids are burnt out already. |
Agree with this |
+1 if you want to play that game, you're better off being a big fish in a little pond. Go to a mediocre performing school, and outshine everyone, then apply to elite univ. They'd love to have you. |
Can’t it be something less than the sole goal and something more than nothing? If it has a negative impact (maybe yes, maybe no) then it seems like it is one of the things to consider. I don’t understand the logic of saying that the high school experience is so important that we send our kids to a magnet school but the college education is so much less important that we don’t even consider the impact. I get there is a cost issue in most cases but it seems that there is an undercurrent of high school is terribly important, grad school is terribly important but the thing in between just doesn’t matter. Btw- way to convince yourself that your kid would be at the “tippy top” at a regular school - that’s not condescending in the least. |
So you’d rather do that in college? Isn’t that the same thing people above are arguing? Go to a magnet school, then a mediocre college and shine so some great grad school might take you? I get you all need to convince yourselves of your noble motives in going through the magnet program but I don’t see some moral failing in considering what impact this has on your kids’ future options. We’ve looked hard at the magnet programs in MoCo - let me tell you something - they aren’t some gift from God. Interesting to be sure but your arrogance at being a magnet parent is astounding. |
+1 The magnet program is about the experience and whether it will suit a particular student. If the goal is college admissions, then don't attend the magnet. |
I'd rather my kid have excellent-quality experiences wherever he is. If he learns to work hard in very challenging classes, he will excel wherever he goes. It's not about "mediocre" (your word) or "elite" schools. It's about him and his experience. |
No I think what we are saying is go the magnet route if that is what your child wants and needs during a very important developmental period. I think some of us would also disagree with your characterization of UMD as a mediocre school. It is a huge state school with a heterogeneous student body. What this means is that there are lots of super bright students (especially in the honors colleges) and since it is a big research institution there are tons of great learning opportunities for motivated students. If you look at where the Blair magnet kids end up attending college, half end up at UMD, many end up at top 30 schools and many end up at places like CMU, UNC, UC Berkeley. I think all of them will do just fine. |