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My daughter’s roommate is an international student from Myanmar. Yes, let me just suggest that she visit a Home Depot in her hometown, “get some boxes, rent a van, and drive to Massachusetts.” God, some of you are so stupid. |
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So much privilege in this thread -- like why can't every parent just drive to pick up their kid? or hey, if you have too much stuff, just leave it by the dumpsters (and just buy it all again next year). Just rent a storage unit!
I went there a long time ago. My parents didn't live within driving distance and they wouldn't have time off on short notice to come get me in any case. I couldn't afford to throw away all my stuff -- like winter coats, my books, my printer! That stuff is expensive! Do you think everyone can afford to just dispose of all their stuff and buy it all again next year? Even renting a storage unit would have been a big expense for me. SMH at all these privileged, privileged people. |
Nice try hon! Not even close but you sound like a tiger mom... you got this. |
I am hoping this is sarcasm as well. If it's not, then good grief. |
Ah, the irony of telling someone to buy a book on minimalism! |
This is H covering its rear end. |
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This is done every May at moveout time:
stack the bike, the frig, the microwave, the couch, the lazyboy, the surplus clothes near the dumpster. Or if you can, drive them over to Goodwill in town. Buy 2 $10 duffles at K mart. STuff your clothes in them. Buy a plane ticket. You are effectively moved out. |
You sound really ignorant. The kids were leaving in a few weeks anyway... so it's a few weeks earlier, plans change, it's not a big deal... do whatever you were doing in a few weeks... do that this week. |
Not sarcastic in the least. You’re talking about buying books on minimalism, like poor kids can Marie Kondo themselves out of this disruption. Some of these kids pay their own way, can’t afford to put stuff out on the street, don’t have access to air bnb, can’t buy a random plane ticket, live overseas in war zones. |
This is just straight up ignorant. Some students come from abusive households they can’t return to. Some don’t have parents that can support them returning home. Some live too far to travel on short notice. Some students are aged-out former foster care kids who literally have no where to go. Some are from countries that are not safe to return to (including those currently being affected by coronavirus.) Some are too poor to travel on short notice. |
Not correct. Spring break was about to happen. They were not planning to move out until late May, about 10 weeks from now. |
NP. As someone who was functionally homeless in college this would have drastically changed my standard of living. I was a student who worked full time and it took me months to get ready for breaks. |
| I think it will all be fine for the Harvard parents and students in the long run -- but we should know better than to post our anxiety and looking for support of understanding on this board, especially from the person who is berating anyone who pushes back on the criticism for being concerned about moving out this weekend. We can feel bad for our kids and still turn on the dime, make arrangements, and criticize Harvard for taking the drastic step in general. |
| Students can stay on campus if they have no where to go. If it’s a financial issue assistance is possible. I don’t think we need to break out the pity party for Harvard undergrads just yet. -former first generation student who knows its hard but not crime against humanity, ffs |
and harvard has <200 poor students and now they provide stipends for kids to travel and guess what... this is not about you. "functionally homeless"
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