TSJFCV girls DA teams playing home games in Alexandria today

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Anonymous wrote:Christian no longer coaching with Spirit?

Huh?!?!?!?

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Anonymous wrote:Christian no longer coaching with Spirit?

Huh?!?!?!?

True. He's out.

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Anonymous wrote:What is up with these guys? Bobby sounds like he's got some issues, Mikey has issues, geez. Who is next?

Bobby at FCV and Mikey and BRYC? Anyone else I should be aware of sine I have younger girls?

Bobby doesn't just have issues... he is a real ugly spot in soccer. Run Run RUN from him.

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Anonymous wrote:What is up with these guys? Bobby sounds like he's got some issues, Mikey has issues, geez. Who is next?

Bobby at FCV and Mikey and BRYC? Anyone else I should be aware of sine I have younger girls?

Bobby doesn't just have issues... he is a real ugly spot in soccer. Run Run RUN from him.

Really? Guy seems like a pip squeak.

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Anonymous wrote:What is up with these guys? Bobby sounds like he's got some issues, Mikey has issues, geez. Who is next?

Bobby at FCV and Mikey and BRYC? Anyone else I should be aware of sine I have younger girls?

If you are considering a club and you are not familiar with their coaching staff you should try to go watch the coach coach a game.

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Anonymous wrote:What is up with these guys? Bobby sounds like he's got some issues, Mikey has issues, geez. Who is next?

Bobby at FCV and Mikey and BRYC? Anyone else I should be aware of sine I have younger girls?

Nadir at McLean.

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Anonymous wrote:What is up with these guys? Bobby sounds like he's got some issues, Mikey has issues, geez. Who is next?

Bobby at FCV and Mikey and BRYC? Anyone else I should be aware of sine I have younger girls?

Nadir at McLean.

Haha. That right there tells you all you need to know about the validity of these claims.

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Anonymous wrote:What is up with these guys? Bobby sounds like he's got some issues, Mikey has issues, geez. Who is next?

Bobby at FCV and Mikey and BRYC? Anyone else I should be aware of sine I have younger girls?

Nadir at McLean.

Haha. That right there tells you all you need to know about the validity of these claims.

He routinely screams at kids and personally attacks them when they make a mistake. If you’re a starter, you do no wrong.

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Anonymous wrote:What is up with these guys? Bobby sounds like he's got some issues, Mikey has issues, geez. Who is next?

Bobby at FCV and Mikey and BRYC? Anyone else I should be aware of sine I have younger girls?

Nadir at McLean.

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Anonymous wrote:^^^ these two are lucky that their kids aren’t an “embarrassment to the DA”

So there is the crux of the disagreement. Some parents consider that language abusive and others consider it rude, but not abusive, and indicative of something the kid may experience out in the real world. Should coaches use that language? No. Is it abusive? That’s a matter of opinion and parents are free to make their choice about staying or leaving.

Correct. And for those of us who have chosen to leave and not subject our kids to that type of an environment over something as trivial as soccer, there are apparently people who rather say "you were cut" or "denied an offer" instead of recognizing a choice has been made. But hey, if that's what they need to say to justify why they stay, have at it.

I don't assume everyone else was cut or not offered. There's a right fit for every child, plenty of places to choose from around here. But, the thought that FCV parents sit by and allow their kids to be abused all in the name of some wins and scholarships is just not accurate. That talk should stop. No parent in their right mind at any club is going to tolerate that.

Then perhaps FCV parents should lay off the attacks of other clubs then if they can't take any criticism themselves.

uhmmmm okay. I'm not whoever those parents are, so I don't criticize anyone for their club choice. Wouldn't waste my time attacking anyone for that. Just trying to shed dispell this myth that FCV parents only care about winning and are somehow sacrificing their children's well-being for it. It's just not the case.

You must be new here then.

Naw, just clearing up this crazy notion. I'm sure you'll find a lunatic or two at every club, but most soccer parents are similar in that they choose the best environment for their player and spend no time bashing other parents for their own choice.

Well, we feel so sorry for you. Bless your heart.

Huh? What the heck is that? Why do you feel sorry for me? What's with all that snark? I haven't been snarky at all. Why can't it just be a normal conversation without all that? Nevermind, my fault for trying to be reasonable on this board.

FCV parent crying because folks criticize the club. Go read some tweets to feel better.

We have different definitions of crying. Lol. This was all about parents allowing kids to be abused. I’m just saying that’s not how it is but I guess you’d rather fight and not make sense so I’ll leave you to it.

You are too dumb to realize that just because you (one parent) says something it must be true for the whole club. Idiot.

So, you really think an entire club of parents are sitting around while their kids are abused and doing nothing about it? Okay. Also, you won’t get a rise out of me with the ‘dumb’ and ‘idiot’ stuff. I’ll let you throw around the insults all you want. You sound so angry about a club that means nothing to you.

A group of parents were able to get a coaching change BECAUSE of the coaching behavior.

It doesn't sound like your kid is on a DA team.

two teams to be exact. Bobby is banned from 2 teams. He only has the older kids because they are trapped - either seniors or right in the middle of recruiting conversation juniors. Everyone knows this. Why do you think so many seniors are leaving early and NOT going to showcases/nationals??

Which two teams is he banned from?

04 and 05

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Think just the 05s, but I thought that decision was more about their performance with him as their coach than his behavior.

Don't they go kinda hand in hand?

Usually. Nice PR sound bite though.

soooo...Bobby doesnt think a team is winning enough so he stops coaching them. I think this is even worse. Although I know it's not true. There was a parent meeting with Christian, now Bobby wont be around them.

disgusting coach

The 05s win just about every game they play. Probably the best DA team they have. What are you talking about as far as “not winning enough?”

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Anonymous wrote:^^^ these two are lucky that their kids aren’t an “embarrassment to the DA”

So there is the crux of the disagreement. Some parents consider that language abusive and others consider it rude, but not abusive, and indicative of something the kid may experience out in the real world. Should coaches use that language? No. Is it abusive? That’s a matter of opinion and parents are free to make their choice about staying or leaving.

Correct. And for those of us who have chosen to leave and not subject our kids to that type of an environment over something as trivial as soccer, there are apparently people who rather say "you were cut" or "denied an offer" instead of recognizing a choice has been made. But hey, if that's what they need to say to justify why they stay, have at it.

I don't assume everyone else was cut or not offered. There's a right fit for every child, plenty of places to choose from around here. But, the thought that FCV parents sit by and allow their kids to be abused all in the name of some wins and scholarships is just not accurate. That talk should stop. No parent in their right mind at any club is going to tolerate that.

Then perhaps FCV parents should lay off the attacks of other clubs then if they can't take any criticism themselves.

uhmmmm okay. I'm not whoever those parents are, so I don't criticize anyone for their club choice. Wouldn't waste my time attacking anyone for that. Just trying to shed dispell this myth that FCV parents only care about winning and are somehow sacrificing their children's well-being for it. It's just not the case.

You must be new here then.

Naw, just clearing up this crazy notion. I'm sure you'll find a lunatic or two at every club, but most soccer parents are similar in that they choose the best environment for their player and spend no time bashing other parents for their own choice.

Well, we feel so sorry for you. Bless your heart.

Huh? What the heck is that? Why do you feel sorry for me? What's with all that snark? I haven't been snarky at all. Why can't it just be a normal conversation without all that? Nevermind, my fault for trying to be reasonable on this board.

FCV parent crying because folks criticize the club. Go read some tweets to feel better.

We have different definitions of crying. Lol. This was all about parents allowing kids to be abused. I’m just saying that’s not how it is but I guess you’d rather fight and not make sense so I’ll leave you to it.

You are too dumb to realize that just because you (one parent) says something it must be true for the whole club. Idiot.

So, you really think an entire club of parents are sitting around while their kids are abused and doing nothing about it? Okay. Also, you won’t get a rise out of me with the ‘dumb’ and ‘idiot’ stuff. I’ll let you throw around the insults all you want. You sound so angry about a club that means nothing to you.

A group of parents were able to get a coaching change BECAUSE of the coaching behavior.

It doesn't sound like your kid is on a DA team.

two teams to be exact. Bobby is banned from 2 teams. He only has the older kids because they are trapped - either seniors or right in the middle of recruiting conversation juniors. Everyone knows this. Why do you think so many seniors are leaving early and NOT going to showcases/nationals??

Which two teams is he banned from?

04 and 05

half true

Think just the 05s, but I thought that decision was more about their performance with him as their coach than his behavior.

Don't they go kinda hand in hand?

Usually. Nice PR sound bite though.

soooo...Bobby doesnt think a team is winning enough so he stops coaching them. I think this is even worse. Although I know it's not true. There was a parent meeting with Christian, now Bobby wont be around them.

disgusting coach

The 05s win just about every game they play. Probably the best DA team they have. What are you talking about as far as “not winning enough?”

Except when they lose 8-0 and their parents brawl with eachother on the sideline.