Has your husband ever left you at the airport or party?

[Anonymous]

No Op. but the important thing isn't *where*, it's that emotions are sooo high that it would happen anywhere

So odd. If it happened, the relationship is seriously so messed-up, it's not healthy and it's beyond repair.

Now, if someone wants to leave a party early, have two alternative ways home planned. That's reasonable. Not done in anger.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. I am divorced, but have a relatively amicable relationship with my ex (not close but pleasant, we see each other every other month or so for dinner at a restaurant with the kids). I cannot imagine him doing this to me when we were married.

I have a very good relationship with my ex-wife as well but stopped going out with her since she got remarried. Kids and I are happy and I always encourage them to buy or treat their mothers for important occasions.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:my ex-gf used to do like this - running away whenever we disagree on anything minor, started walking away or just leave the house, giving silent treatment in front of kids, etc. She used to get very angry and started arguing about little stuff and not understand her boundaries. Most of the time I was confused if someone can behave like this with you if they love you but ending it with her was the best thing I did in recent years.

That's horrible. How old is she? This is nuts and she has a lot of anger issues.

She is 43 now and has always been a bit on the angry side. Tries to control people and micromanage and doesn't accept when they push back and set boundaries.

[Anonymous]

So much stress. I thought Airport Parties were supposed to be about having fun. Excuse us, do you know where Gate Such and Such Is?? and so on. lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:my ex-gf used to do like this - running away whenever we disagree on anything minor, started walking away or just leave the house, giving silent treatment in front of kids, etc. She used to get very angry and started arguing about little stuff and not understand her boundaries. Most of the time I was confused if someone can behave like this with you if they love you but ending it with her was the best thing I did in recent years.

That's horrible. How old is she? This is nuts and she has a lot of anger issues.

She is 43 now and has always been a bit on the angry side. Tries to control people and micromanage and doesn't accept when they push back and set boundaries.

If she is still bitter and angry then I doubt she would ever improve from here. More relationships she is going to fail in, bitter she is going to be in.

[Anonymous]

I'd like to leave my husband at the airport because he is such a stress case. Actually, I'd like him to leave for the airport without me/us so that we can arrive a normal amount of time before departure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:After a fight, has he left without you?

No, because he's not a dick.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:my ex-gf used to do like this - running away whenever we disagree on anything minor, started walking away or just leave the house, giving silent treatment in front of kids, etc. She used to get very angry and started arguing about little stuff and not understand her boundaries. Most of the time I was confused if someone can behave like this with you if they love you but ending it with her was the best thing I did in recent years.

That's horrible. How old is she? This is nuts and she has a lot of anger issues.

She is 43 now and has always been a bit on the angry side. Tries to control people and micromanage and doesn't accept when they push back and set boundaries.

If she is still bitter and angry then I doubt she would ever improve from here. More relationships she is going to fail in, bitter she is going to be in.

yeah, women like this rarely improves so I am glad you ended with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd like to leave my husband at the airport because he is such a stress case. Actually, I'd like him to leave for the airport without me/us so that we can arrive a normal amount of time before departure.

this is abusive if you are trying not to repair and avoiding him for all this. Don't be married to him but also remember that what you are doing is manipulation.