+1 If you want college counseling you won’t get it at HB. Hire a private coach or do your own research. |
| Another thing to know about HB- scheduling conflicts come up more. My kid couldn’t take a class because it conflicted with a different class. Same with their friend. |
Respectfully, all this tells me is that that student didn’t belong at HB in the first place. The school makes very clear that it is designed for self motivated and self directed students—not ones that need to be “pushed.” And hundreds of hours to research colleges? Really? We sent four kids to college, all of them to very good ones, and we didn’t spend hundreds of hours collectively between the four researching colleges. It’s not that difficult. I suggest you look inward instead of outward when evaluating your student’s experience at HB. —Parent of 2 HB grads |
Weird take. We got no college counseling at HB so we had to do it on our own. Not sure how that makes my kid a bad fit for HB? Please tell me which TAs at HB recommended a list of elite colleges for your kid to apply to. If you really are an HB parent. |
Full time Counselors are way more likely to direct them to sure thing schools, as they are more familiar with the odds. The do-whatever-you-want teacher approach means kids take that long shot without discouragement from an overworked counselor. Yes teachers are busy too, but for counselors application season everything ramps up at once vs running a steady class over two semesters. |
| advisors at H-B are explicitly told not to give students a list of schools to apply to. That has always been the case. Anyone who went to the guidance nights offered by the principal would have heard this message. Is that what the counselors at Yorktown and W-L and Wakefield do? |
They definitely discourage reach schools — 1/3 of the class are Valedictorians at WL, so many will have lofty goals but the counselors don't want to have to deal with hundreds of long shots so dampen expectations, strictly limit the number they can apply to, etc. |
Thank you. I have one in HB and I'm asking them where do they want to go geographically. These next 4 are for fun and a very basic credential. Any good school will do. Also, I saw that 100 hours and was like...who? Me? No. No way. naaaa |
Ok well some non HB person was claiming that the TAs at HB and the other kids push kids towards applying to elite colleges. I was saying that didn't happen AT ALL, and also we barely got any college counseling at all at HB. Just worked with us on the process to submit recs and transcripts. That's really it. |
I assume the PP was counting trips to see colleges. It's easy to get over 100 hours that way. I'm sure we were there too. Are you not planning to visit any colleges? |
you keep coming up with the weirdest ways to convince yourself HB kids get some weird benefit that others don't. first you said they got counseling on college lists. then when that was proven wrong, you pivot 180 to claim that the exact opposite - lack of any counseling - is the real benefit. never let facts interfere with your opinions!!! |
| It's weird right? And on multiple threads. I'm so curious as to their motivation. |
There are multiple posters affirming that HBW is a huge advantage over attending neighborhood schools. |
Are you for real? it’s an anon board so who knows how many or one. And who is this poster exactly? I have read multiple posts from a non HB person making false and uninformed - and sometimes completely contradictory-assumptions about HB. Don’t believe everything you read on the internet! Especially when they won’t even put their name on it. |
I’m one of the posters and see other posts. I posted the elite college statistics. |