Take time off OP and bring the DC to their office! I had to take time off and drive all over and do backflips to get my son's serious health issue diagnosed and treated. It was inconvenient and exhausting and it meant no promotion for me and fear of losing work. I have empathy for you, but I don't get the sense you have any empathy for what life is like for healthcare professionals. They too develop serious health issues and while dealing with difficult patients, crazy caseloads, difficult work hours and burnout, they have to wait around for results, and do backflips to get their own health issues addressed. |
Sorry CD not DC |
Do you know if your Birads is 4a, b, or c? Your experience is wild to me. I have a lot of experience with biopsies and breast cancer and they always get me in for the biopsies ASAP. Have you tried calling and talking to another scheduler? They always save spots for people who need things like this. It is very different from scheduling a screening test. Where are you located? |
Also, I wouldn’t worry too much about it progressing in this time. Cancer doesn’t usually move that fast. It is more the mental/emotional side of not knowing. |
Your post is not relevant to the topic at hand. I'm sorry you had to drive around working on medical appointments for your child. The point of this thread is that we all should not have to wait this long, but some want to argue that we are entitled if we think the care should be better. I think they are sheep primed to do whatever the corporate overlords tell them to do, and they think I am entitled because I want to stop my possible growing cancer. If you are taking issue with me not picking up the CD, doing so will not get me in any earlier so there is not point to doing that. OP |
Thank you, you guys. I appreciate the sentiment and the acknowledgment of the rude and mean posters on this thread. They must have sad lives. Marshall Rosenberg says anger reflects an unmet need, so I figure they have some sort of need not being met. OP |
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Not the person you are responding to, but it is harder to take someone seriously when the story keeps changing. The post title implies several months, but then OP says in the post it's next month. Many of us have been there. Then later on it comes out that there may be other options, but that would entail OP having to take time off and drive her CD to other places. Yet, she presumably wants overworked medical professionals to prioritize her care and somehow add a few hours to their sometimes 80 hour work week. There is an explosion in cancer and fewer health professionals. They prioritize based on severity and when you call. She then says this is just unacceptable. What is her solution exactly| Produce more health professionals out of thin air or bump her in front of people with more severe health issues? Then you have people saying this country is the worst? Do you know people in Canada and Europe? I do and it's not on common to have insane wait times-even years for some things. Also, saying this is worse than any other country is comical. Go try a 3rd world country. Life is highly stressful. Many of us have been through terrible things, but we also have perspective. Waiting a few weeks and then quickly getting treatment if something is found is fortunate, not a broken system. |
But not getting scheduled for a biopsy ASAP for a breast lump is not standard. Waiting between screening and diagnostic mammogram is more normal. But they almost always get you in within a few days for the biopsy. This has been my experience at Inova, Sibley, and Fairfax Radiology. Also for friends who have gone through this. |
Your response is unreal to me. Not OP, not a PP. IT IS NOT A PATIENT’S FAULT IF PER YOUR FAIRY TALE, A PROVIDER HAS 80 HOUR WEEKS SO THINGS ARE DELAYED AND SLIP. What that is, is an example of the overall strain and inefficiency of obtaining routine, let alone acute, care. It’s ridiculous! It’s okay to want a better-functioning system, where health insurance gets you in reasonably quickly for diagnostic exams. That’s different from the whole rigamarole of scheduling annuals. Your perspective is not “zen.” Take your halo and cram it. OP did not make Saint RN MD NP or whoever you’re who’re-knighting take that job. She’s not blaming any individual. Grow up. |
If you’ve got cancer, OP, you need to get used to picking up CDs at one place and driving them to another place. You’re going to have to do that a lot. You do have to take off work for it. Anyone with any chronic or acute serious health issue has to do a lot of administrative crap to get medical treatment. |
I find OP frustrating and entitled. |
I had a mammogram earlier this month, a follow up mammogram and ultrasound on the next business day, and am scheduled for a biopsy next week. So, it’s scheduled to take two weeks right now from my initial mammogram to the scheduled biopsy date. The facility mentioned they are unusually busy, and I am on the list to call if there are any cancellations. OP, this sounds like a long time to wait to me. I hope we both get some answers soon. |
I don’t and most sane people here don’t, either. I can help you here: you can go screw and try to find a team of therapists to figure why you’re a nasty znatch to someone trying to get a cancer assessment within a reasonable time frame. Best of luck. |
It is not entitled to want to find out if you have cancer after a doctor determines something is suspicious. Maybe it isn’t possible for OP to speed up the wait, but there is nothing entitled about not wanting to wait 6 weeks for a biopsy. I can assure you it is not normal course to have to wait that long for a breast biopsy. And even if it were, a little empathy wouldn’t kill some of you. I hope it is just that you have never had to deal with a serious health issue and lack the understanding of how difficult it can be. Because if you have and you still act like this, man. |