Is this something you made up? Honest opinions = being a jerk? |
My friend's son sounds very similar to yours, including being from a Western state (not CA). He didn't get into any of the T20 schools he applied to. In retrospect, I'd guess, as others have said here that his app didn't tell a compelling story about his varied interests. He ended up going to the Barrett Honors College at Arizona State with a large scholarship. He had great research opportunities there, played in the marching band, had fun. And is now pursuing his PhD at one of the top universities in the world for his field. So, add Barrett to your list https://barretthonors.asu.edu/ |
Hahaha. Best comment of the thread. A new EC… |
I would definitely have the kid talk about the primary parent's cancer diagnosis and its impact on the kid's life in the new part of the Common App (there's a new question). I think it's 250 words. This is exactly where it should go and should be a well-crafted paragraph. |
That EC has been around forever. I personally know 2 kids who got into HYPSM with this as their primary EC (historic costumes ran the gamut from colonial, Civil War to ancient Greek, a few literary ECs at school, drama club, founding sewing club, and working at a museum, etc. Especially for English lit, history or anthro majors. Entirely self-driven - this isn't something a "parent can do" for the kid. |
What school? Because unless one of the tippy top ones with super generous fa or your kid got full ride merit, wouldn’t help. |
Do not do this. This is the thing admissions officers say they hate. |
OP here. My kid does write quite well, and I'm sure my kid could create a strong story if they wished. I'm also sure that my kid would feel uncomfortable and a bit dirty from crafting some sort of story. They'd much rather attend the state school than play these admissions games. I only started this thread because we just received my kid's ACT score. I thought a perfect score would mean something for T20. I learned it doesn't. Asked and answered. |
The UCs don’t give oos merit and therefore would be out of budget. Op already said this. |
I disagree. There is a new prompt for extenuating family or personal circumstances. That's where they want it this year. And, everyone person we know who had a parent die or a parent struggle with cancer got into a T10 this year. Take a look at the below. https://www.essaymaster.com/college-essay-examples/learning-from-illness-harvard-college-personal-statement-tips |
Except…mom has been sick for years and she said kid win’t want to “craft a story.” OP never said what her cancer is, treatment is like or if kid has had any impact. My husband had cancer but we didnt have the kids apply for a scholarship for kids w/parents who had cancer bc the impact was almost zero on them, comparatively speaking. |
It is not crass. It is part of the kid's personal story and narrative. It shaped them into who they are today and will give a full picture to the admissions officers. My kid, a slightly above average, but not exceptional student, got into a T20 school, incorporating into his essays how his father's chronic condition impacted his life. Not a sob story, just matter of fact telling of how he helped take care of his dad etc... He is a kind, empathetic individual and I believe his teachers' LORs also reflected how they appreciated him. |
I also had cancer. No way would I want my kids to use it as a sob story on their app. Different story if a parent has died. |
Well, they probably aren't a dime a dozen in Idaho or Wyoming or Montana, but in metro DC (or metro NYC, metro SF, etc), there are many. Sorry to enlighten you to the real world out here. |
Then why are you keeping this thread alive by commenting over and over and over again? |