Lehigh, Pitt, W&M |
Of course it. What you made up was, “DC is helping to take care of mom.” No one said that is part of the story. My spouse had cancer. It was surgery and done. My friend has cancer. It is watch and see. My other friend had thyroid cancer. It was radiation pills (one dosing) and done. You are the one who made up that kid is taking care of mom. No one ever said that occurred. |
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OP - look at a few top schools too.
Dartmouth loves drama club kids with high stats! All the kids we know that got in there had a heavy arts component. Multi-dimensional bc of D-plan. Listen to Lee Coffin’s (Dartmouth AO /dean) latest podcast. “Yeah, so if you're a high school junior and just starting to explore college options and then a few months from now, you're gonna have to tell a story about yourself to those colleges. I mean, how do you see the lessons from this drama space informing that exploration now and then the storytelling later?” —— “Well, and it's such a great parallel to a college application, because the best ones do the same thing you just described that a student on a stage will do. Like you're telling your story, but you're bringing it forward through these different elements and not just letting it lie there as a flat document, but you're giving it some sparkle. Let's help students think about like taking that selfie, like looking at themselves.” From Admissions Beat: Lessons from the Stage, Apr 15, 2025 |
In my first kid’s graduating class (2024) in FCPS (Fairfax), there were 264 NMSF students. I assume MCPS, LCPS, PWPS, Arlington and DC schools, etc also have NMSFs. We have a lot of high stats kids in this area. |
OMG! Read again. I was relaying my kid's experience and his taking care of his dad and how this was part of his application. |
One of this is not like the others. |
No, you read it again. Here I’ll help: You: “Maybe that can actually be a hook and help your DC explain away any weakness in ECs. What’s your DC’s “story”? DC is helping to take care of Mom.” If you were doing what you only now claim, you woukd have said MY kid’s was taking care of DAD.” Sigh 🙄 |
Ivies and T15 privates, OP. Apply to as many that have a theater/drama scene, which is likely all but MIT and Dartmouth unless that has changed. All will be an excellent academic fit with the majority of (non-athlete) students on par with yours, meaning yours is likely to be "average". Some students cannot deal with that: if so, aim lower like T21-35. Other students truly thrive on the vitality that comes from being surrounded by high-achieving go-getters where it is common to be intense about art or EC and also intense about studying. Ivy/T15 private will give you the best financial aid, most give some aid for families up to around 250k HHI. Northwestern, Brown in particular love theater kids though that also means they get a lot of them applying. |
This is wildly unrealistic. Little to no chance at T25 without more impressive ECs. |
There is no reason whatsoever that OP's kid shouldn't apply to T25. Please. You all would laugh at my kid's ECs. He's at a T10. It is not about DCUM "impressiveness." |
Agree. Mine too. |
| I’ve found that JHU seems more lenient on ECs. |
But OP is not going to pay more than $30,000 per year. What is the point of applying? |
First, OP needs to use specific college Net Price Calculators before deciding whether top schools are affordable or not. OP's income level is low enough that I think the aid will vary school to school. |
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It sounds like you are at a BASIS or another high performing charter school in Arizona. If you really want your kid to go to a top 20 college the fact that he or she is in a school where 25 percent of students are NMSF is the biggest issue. The the best thing you could do is have him move schools and do senior year a non magnet, non high performing, high poverty school. Maybe that is your neighborhood school.
The next issue is he is the oldest sibling and you only make 150K. Fafsa has eliminated the sibling discount so it is rough out there for middle class families with multiple kids. Full pay is definitely a hook. Look at mid tier school for a full ride with those scores. |