Most vacations require planning but not all vacations require that you do specific things at specific times. When we go to the beach, we take breaks for mini golf or ice cream whenever we want. There is no "at 2pm we will do this ride and then at 4pm we will do that ride." Same thing when we go hiking at a national park or skiing. Even on a recent trip to Europe, we had a lot of days of setting an agenda as we went with nothing reserved in advance. We have done Disney and had fun, but having to commit to be at certain places at certain times is one thing I don't love -- I prefer to be flexible based on weather and everyone's mood. |
So don't go to Disney? You aren't being forced to go. |
I'm a former Disney employee and I say no. It's too much money when your kid would likely have just as much, if not more fun, doing something more low key. Young kids don't like all the lines.
I'm from Orlando and when I go back, I take my young kids we do the Science Center and a pick your own strawberry farm that has a jump pad and giant slides kind of thing. |
PP was weighing in on the OP's question, a hole. |
Spoken in the true Disney spirit! |
Last I check Universal was $160 a ticket! |
I don’t think you can argue that Disney doesn’t require more detailed planning than most other trips. For example, on a trip to NYC, our plans might be: breakfast at 8 am, natural history museum 10-5, dinner at 6, show at 8 pm. But we don’t also have to figure out, in detail, which gallery of the museum to visit at what time, reserve it, etc. We enjoyed DL and I think it can be worth doing once. But yes, it was a lot of detailed planning. |
Of course all vacations require some planning but Disney requires an order of magnitude more planning then it did when we were kids. Our parents didn't have to reserve any rides, if the line was too long we could just find something else. They could feel free to head back to the hotel to swim without missing a crucial reservation, and they of course didn't have to spend time glued to an app. So it's a treasured childhood memory for a lot of people that's a stressful mess now. Yeah I know you Disney superfans think it's NBD but for many families it's completely not worth it. |
I said up thread that it is a totally subjective question and depends on each families likes and dislikes. I think many people dislike the lightening lane system, as ride windows have to be picked a week in advance. You can group them together so that then you have open/free time to play it by ear. or you can find one of the closed entry party events that don’t use LL. Also, they recently switched dining to a 2 hour cancellation policiy which means you often can get same day sit down dining reservations. But still it obviously depends on your family. I often think a summer beach vacation isn’t worth it because the rental prices for something nice near the beach around here are so incredibly high and then I feel like the beach is just not that nice and there’s not that much to do other than sit and read and brush and off your book. But I’m clearly in the minority on that one, which is why the beach rental prices are so insanely high. One thing that’s weird about disney is that there seems to be some weird social pressure people put on themselves to go. Like they feel like they have to go to disney in a way they don’t feel like they have to go to Yosemite or New York City or even the Smithsonian museums or US Capital. So people begrudgingly go and then are unhappy. If you think you’ll hate it, don’t go! |
We never got around to going. Having made it this long, we plan to keep it that way. |
+1 |
From what I understand, this is not true. |
+1000 I never went until I was in my 40s. I went with DH and we don't have kids. I'd always thought of it as kind of like a cruise -- which I absolutely hated. So we only booked two nights and only planned to go to two parks. And then one of the first rides I went on was Haunted Mansion and as a writer, when I saw the creative details that went into just the space where you waited in line, I was fascinated and immensely impressed. The creativity, vision, and execution around seemingly every corner is amazing. We immediately booked another trip so that we could see and experience a lot more. |
And from DC you get there in a couple of hours. Much, much easier. |
Ha! I like that philosophy. |